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But if you trust her completely why are you having these bad feelings? What’s bothering you?
Your feelings are valid, of course. You got new information about your boyfriend that you didn't know before. Now you can think through what you're going to do with it. It's never advised to try to change people in relationships, but you do get to decide how you will react.
Probably best to wait until you're both feeling better to discuss this with him. That'll also give you time to cool off and think of the best way to address it.
If his mom is controlling him well enough to prevent him from going on vacation at 20 years old, he may need therapy for it.
I grew up with a very controlling mom who guilt tripped me (as a young adult) any time I made a decision for myself that she didn't approve. When I was 19, she disowned me for moving 5 hrs away for college. It broke my heart, she cut me off from my siblings (this is back in the day when only the parents had cellphones) and attempted to turn them against me for “abandoning them”.
Anyways, my point is that it's tough to step away from a parent who manipulates especially when you are first leaving the home. Therapy can help him draw boundaries with his mom and to develop healthy plans for similar situations in the future.
If you are not ready to stop your partying, even if it means losing a potential serious relationship, that's your choice.
But your friend may have outgrown his desire to party like a frat boy. That is his choice.
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Hmm. I mean I get it. It’s rough because you feel like you don’t matter to them. I’d like to think they even though you personally feel that way, it wasn’t their intention. Even though it still sucks.
I had only my 2 best friends in my bridal party. Both were in different states and their budgets were tight. They both missed my shower and my bachelorette night (2 nights before the wedding) was really just the 3 of us going to a few bars and heading back early because my one friend got too drunk way too fast. It would have been nice to have a big fun party weekend like my SIL had in Florida, but she also had 12 girls in the bridal party and their circumstances were different than with me and my friends.
However, even though I say it would have been nice to have something different, it wasn’t something that was a priority to me, so I didn’t feel the need to communicate or beg my friends to figure it out and surprise me.
I guess what I’m trying to say is… it’s ok to feel hurt, but please don’t let those feelings eat away at your soul or cause you to change the dynamic with your friends. I think at this point, I would consider going to the bachelor party and see how your friends are with you. If you have a great time celebrating your friend and your friends aren’t being weird to you or leaving you out, then it’s likely they just really didn’t realize how important it would have been to you. If they act weird or treat you like shit, then that’s a different story and you can come back to reddit and we’ll help you sort through that.
Yeah that number alone tells me either this post is fake/exaggerated, or the girlfriend is such a confident liar that she didn’t expect him to google the average OBGYN salary. I would suspect the “twist” of this post is that she’s lying, which is why she hasn’t made significant progress in paying off her debt despite it being only half of her yearly salary.
Thank you lol Sorry for the added stress that made me chuckle, thank you
I accidentally did this to wife once, I have never been so mortified in all my life.
Is this a deal-breaker? Yes bro, very very far away from something you can work together on.