Yep. Knee jerk “we know best” or “we are woke.” Im using “woke” there as gatekeeping, peacocking, and condescending, not actually caring about supporting the marginalized. Really common and it hurts to watch. You'll see it on relationships with age gaps, even if it has nothing to do with that, on any time a woman says her partner yelled at her. Literally “leave him” and they have been married 5 years with kids and happy the whole time. Like wow. How about give him space to talk about what's going on or go to therapist. The list goes on. Keeping watching r/r_a you'll see a post like your asking why people are so mean literally at least once a week.
You did everything right by throwing him out. I will echo what everyone else said and say to get tested. I have been through this, except it was my husband, the father of my 3 children. Do not allow this m%therf*cker in your presence ever again.
Thanks for your comment. I dont see it that way, It's not like i am cheating on her, i would never do it even if i had the opportunity with her friend right now.
You are the best example of a trash mom. Your first thought is not the safety of your baby instead you defended a coke head who assaulted somebody else. That’s your future.
Actually you don’t have a future.
A coke head who’s priority is his supply with drugs and not the needs of your baby.
What do you think he is doing if he has the choice to buy weed/coke/meth or diapers?
You're screwed. She doesn't want to listen and if you force her hand she will resent you. Before throwing out the D word I'd try to see if she would do couples counseling so you both can try to work towards a compromise with a mediator so to speak.
Yeah I don’t cuddle with my girlfriends. Not for prologed periods of time. Like a quick hug and what not or sometimes I’ll sit close to them in a couch if there’s no room. But there will be no actual cuddling like holding or embracing or anything like that, just to watch a movie.
This was a recipe for disaster because people with small dogs don't take these issues as seriously as large dog owners. As soon as these issues presented themselves one of the (presumably the younger) dogs should have been rehomed. It's one thing to live! in constant vigilance with two dogs like this (which sounds incredibly stressful and exhausting for everyone involved), but you can't expect others to understand just how quickly things can escalate. The dogs should have been professionally boarded, or at least kept in separate homes.
So you just give up hope and try to let everything be a d let it go?
Yep. Knee jerk “we know best” or “we are woke.” Im using “woke” there as gatekeeping, peacocking, and condescending, not actually caring about supporting the marginalized. Really common and it hurts to watch. You'll see it on relationships with age gaps, even if it has nothing to do with that, on any time a woman says her partner yelled at her. Literally “leave him” and they have been married 5 years with kids and happy the whole time. Like wow. How about give him space to talk about what's going on or go to therapist. The list goes on. Keeping watching r/r_a you'll see a post like your asking why people are so mean literally at least once a week.
You did everything right by throwing him out. I will echo what everyone else said and say to get tested. I have been through this, except it was my husband, the father of my 3 children. Do not allow this m%therf*cker in your presence ever again.
u/StarcScr3am_, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Thanks for your comment. I dont see it that way, It's not like i am cheating on her, i would never do it even if i had the opportunity with her friend right now.
Not “seems,” bro; IS.
You are the best example of a trash mom. Your first thought is not the safety of your baby instead you defended a coke head who assaulted somebody else. That’s your future.
Actually you don’t have a future.
A coke head who’s priority is his supply with drugs and not the needs of your baby.
What do you think he is doing if he has the choice to buy weed/coke/meth or diapers?
Right? You know it.
Run.
You're screwed. She doesn't want to listen and if you force her hand she will resent you. Before throwing out the D word I'd try to see if she would do couples counseling so you both can try to work towards a compromise with a mediator so to speak.
Yeah I don’t cuddle with my girlfriends. Not for prologed periods of time. Like a quick hug and what not or sometimes I’ll sit close to them in a couch if there’s no room. But there will be no actual cuddling like holding or embracing or anything like that, just to watch a movie.
This was a recipe for disaster because people with small dogs don't take these issues as seriously as large dog owners. As soon as these issues presented themselves one of the (presumably the younger) dogs should have been rehomed. It's one thing to live! in constant vigilance with two dogs like this (which sounds incredibly stressful and exhausting for everyone involved), but you can't expect others to understand just how quickly things can escalate. The dogs should have been professionally boarded, or at least kept in separate homes.
JFC.
Yes, it is incredibly fucked up. Would you control someone’s attire and how they look? No? Okay. Then why are you letting someone else do it to you?
Tell him to eat shit.
Update me