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You should have confirmed she knew what was going on before you left. You saw it and decided to just ignore it.
There may have still been a fight, but it would have been in private at home.
You need to figure out what was going on in her head, but in a non aggressive or accusatory manner. Was this simple miscommunication or is she playing some game?
There is already some good advice here but I have to say I empathize. I have a sister that I don’t talk to (only Zoom calls with fam otherwise NC over a year). My BPD mom took the approach of inviting me to Easter with sister and when I said no disowned me. My Dad and step mom stayed out of it, which is the mature approach.
My sister is now pregnant, due in February. She has not responded to my boundaries or reached out so I did the same. I know the baby will be used as a pawn just like in your situation. I’m also the middle child and expected to “be the bigger person” and “keep the peace” all the time. However, I’m in my 30s now and it took a long time for me to put up boundaries and stand up for myself. This is a hill to die on. Your sister is being immature (duh she is 18) but if you feed into this it will only get worse.
Lastly, a baby doesn’t get gifts the mother does. The baby doesn’t know what is going on.
You’ve been together 7 years and you don’t even live together? Serious question, what is your goal with this man?
Other children might also think negatively of their father when they reach adulthood.
I would be disgusted with my parent if I knew they treated my other siblings that way.
It shows that he only loves his kids if it’s convenient and that is not what you want in a parent.
You do understand that what you are doing is deflecting blame and acting the victim? Both of you know that the conversation you were having was inappropriate. He has withdrawn rather than letting it go further – it is quite possible that he doesn't know HOW to have a genuine friendship with you without sexual overtones.
Which is a 'him' problem, and he's taking steps to fix it.
Your main priority at work is to WORK, you don't have to be mates with everyone, you just have to be civil. I'm sorry you feel you have lost a friend, but this didn't sound like a healthy dynamic. You had already crossed lines that shouldn't be crossed in a work environment, putting some healthy space between you isn't a bad idea at this point.