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Check her edit/comments. Turns out her SA was what she was crying about and he knew that.
I think he was just at his wits end. His grandfather passed away and his sister is now at the hospital. He's obviously going through a lot, but dumping your emotions on you, in front of the children, wasnt right.
Find a time to sit with time and communicate and I hope he will understand and share how he has been feeling and he may apologize. Also, ask him to talk to his children, and help him be their hero once again
I always tell them that if they want something casual tell me, if they want something serious tell me.
Just because you tell them that doesn’t mean they know themselves well enough or are capable of trusting you enough to be honest, ie they’re not emotionally available, even if they wish they were or are trying to be.
So of course therapy can help, but something you can do yourself is google how to tell if someone is trustworthy and how to tell if they’re emotionally available. Read articles from reputable sources and put together a list that speaks to your values and boundaries, the strongest values and boundaries you have now are often what you got the least of or what hurt you the most in the past. Just keep in mind no one’s perfect so people aren’t going to get everything right and if you expect these things from others you need to do them yourself.
That said, once you have the list, it can do three things for you. One, help you better identify behaviors of yours, of others or both that are untrustworthy or undermine trust from the get go, so you can work on those issues directly or end things before you get in too deep. Two, it can help reassure you or others or both where you can trust each other by highlighting already present trustworthy behaviors. And three, the more you use and refine the list, the more the information will become second nature, such that in time you won’t need it. I also have a genetic list that can help get you started. If that interests you, let me know and I’ll send it your way.
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Don’t tell her until you have DOCUMENTARY PROOF!!!
He will spin it against you and say you came on to him! Guess who Mia is going to believe?
Just out of curiosity, when he reminded you of what you did, what did you do?
He doesn't care for giving. He only wants to take. You said it yourself -he just lays there.
He has ZERO interest in pleasing you. You need to ask him why he feels this way.
My two cents: if you're going to choose a partner based on receiving “signs”, you're going to make choices based on anxiety that you're going to possibly regret. Maybe breaking up for other reasons with this guy will still be the right thing to do, but not because you didn't receive some type of sign from higher powers.
If you're actively looking for signs, you're not going to see any. Because there will never be a sure way to know anyone is “the one”. You can't manifest yourself out of uncertainty. That sounds harsh, but it's life.
Holding on to these kind of signs will set you up to live! a life based on anxiety. (Because: what if you never find the right signs? What if you love being with your partner, but you don't receive signs? Will the grass then be greener on the other side, too?)
So even if he has the potential to be a great life partner, you will not receive signs that he's the one. I don't even think “the one” is out there in some kind of magical way. When you find someone you're compatible with, who you love, whose values align with yours and who has the same goals, you can choose to be with them. Choose to be with them everyday, keep consciously choosing them and working on your relationship, and eventually they will become like “the one”.
If you, for some reason, don't think you can keep making that choice everyday because of the fact that your values don't align anymore, then it may be better to break up. Not because you didn't receive any magical sign, but because you're worried about your compatibility.
But then still talk to him first, at least. Maybe he's fighting and growing in ways you can't even see. Maybe he doesn't know how to grow as a person, or is scared, and needs some encouragement. Or maybe you've grown apart, and he doesn't agree with your assessment at all. But please communicate with him if you haven't already.