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This guy turned into a major fucking asshole, and the only reason he is contacting you after you broke up with him is because he feels entitled to your attention.
Block him completely on all communication formats. Block his number, block him on social media. Give yourself the chance to mourn the relationship without his interference and move on.
You dumped her. If she bounced on every dick in city, it was none of your business. If you didn’t want her having sex with other people you shouldn’t have dumped her. You not only have no right to any feelings about it, but there’s a very good chance you’re being a hypocrite since you were the one who dumped her!!!
No you can't trust her. Also, don't keep an addicts secret a lie, I'm in recovery myself. The fact that she cares more about that, then being honest and checking herself into treatment shows you she is in denial and not remorseful.
Unfortunately substance use issues are naked to cure, even harder when a person wants to be secretive about it and not do real recovery.
Don't be a condescending ass about things your partner loves.
I like Taylor Swift. My girlfriend hates her. She used to give me shit every time I listened to TS until I pointed out to her that she plays music I hate often, I just let her enjoy it and don't use it as a way to start conflict.
She realized she had been a condescending ass and no longer does it.
Hopefully it also made you more sure in your choice to break up. You deserve someone that treated you better than he did. Just try to not get too caught if you do message her. You’re a good person trying to warn her but you shouldn’t waste any more of your time on them than you need to
That’s good because he sounds dangerous
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My partner, my friends and I are going to that party.
This post is about the shopping part. The tinder friend asked me to go shopping since he needs to go shopping too. He is not going to that party.
Seems there is a little misunderstanding here.
She already did settle for man who messaged another woman. had his baby too.
Why haven't you blocked him.
This guy turned into a major fucking asshole, and the only reason he is contacting you after you broke up with him is because he feels entitled to your attention.
Block him completely on all communication formats. Block his number, block him on social media. Give yourself the chance to mourn the relationship without his interference and move on.
You dumped her. If she bounced on every dick in city, it was none of your business. If you didn’t want her having sex with other people you shouldn’t have dumped her. You not only have no right to any feelings about it, but there’s a very good chance you’re being a hypocrite since you were the one who dumped her!!!
No you can't trust her. Also, don't keep an addicts secret a lie, I'm in recovery myself. The fact that she cares more about that, then being honest and checking herself into treatment shows you she is in denial and not remorseful.
Unfortunately substance use issues are naked to cure, even harder when a person wants to be secretive about it and not do real recovery.
Easy answer, leave and divorce him. He’s an awful person and is going to hurt you.
Don't be a condescending ass about things your partner loves.
I like Taylor Swift. My girlfriend hates her. She used to give me shit every time I listened to TS until I pointed out to her that she plays music I hate often, I just let her enjoy it and don't use it as a way to start conflict.
She realized she had been a condescending ass and no longer does it.
Hopefully it also made you more sure in your choice to break up. You deserve someone that treated you better than he did. Just try to not get too caught if you do message her. You’re a good person trying to warn her but you shouldn’t waste any more of your time on them than you need to