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Are there any parts of the relationship that are working well?
You say the differences were apparent over your two years of dating. So what were the parts that made you get together? What did you have in common?
Hey man. Sit down and discuss boundaries with her. You gotta tell her this not Reddit.
Alright, because Im rlly confused as to what i have to do in this situation. Like the fact that she told me i can appreciate, because of the honesty. But i understand that curiosity is normal, but to doubt the relationship is what kind of threw me of. But ill take ur advice since that was my own thought too
Therapy is one of the things I'd like to raise when we have this conversation. He's self employed, not sure what sort of insurance he's got. Will look into it, but I agree – there is something psychosomatic going on here.
I'd probably be into it to be honest. For example, a lot of people think is weird that my bf has a very good relationship with his ex gf, they are friends and I have a gold relationship with her. I think highly of him because of this, it comes to show he is a good person.
How would this go. Do i if i ask the landlord to remove him and he obliged, what would the landlord do? Would it be verbal or written, usually? And after the notice, what if the abusive partner refuses to comply? Will the cops finally have a legal reason to remove him? I would just like to know what i would be prepared for and how it worked for your sister.
BITCH BYYYEEEEEEEE
(Bitch being your fiancé)
What sparked this change? How can you look at the absolute horrors going on in the world and think that your or any other god cares about what you do in the bedroom? Those ideas come from someone else trying to control you. If you want to buy into that, that’s on you. But look at what it’s costing you. What do you think you’re buying for that?
I guess my word means nothing.
True.
Moving forward, if you two do stay together or don't, do not make promises or agreements that you cannot keep.
Or else your word becomes meaningless if you say “yes I can and will do x”, but then consistently don't meet your promise.
If someone makes a request, their request may be fair and valid but so are your feelings/position on the matter. And if you don't think you can actually adhere to their request, you need to negotiate or share your side. Don't give in and say you'll do something if you know it'll be too much for you.
I had an ex who wanted me to stop watching porn/masturbating. I said I can stop watching porn, but I can't stop masturbating because it's something I enjoy, I find it empowering, it releases stress, and as a woman I don't always orgasm from PIV sex.
If your gf makes requests, be real with yourself about what you can realistically agree to and then advocate for yourself. And if you know you're going to slip up, then don't agree. And if it's a dealbreaker for her, then you two are not a good match if she breaks down when you masturbate yet you feel that you cannot control those sexual urges.
This would also count the fact that things can be talked about after calming down. Ive spent most of my life ihnoring my feelings and bottling them up and it was toxic. I now take the time to feel what i need to feel amd if that takes hours or days, i dont understand why thats unhealthy
Yes absolutely
wtf are u doing
If I'm right handed, but I punch you with my left, did I punch you? Yes, I did
One and half month, that like itself explains he isn’t interested anymore or is stubborn, as you already texted him and him being cold well I guess it’s time for u to actually end things with him. He seems like a toxic dude. Plus very childish behavior from his side.
Yikes, Cathy if you find this, DUMP HIM.
A man who has blurry boundaries with his women friends are not worth it!!! His “best friend” threw a fit and called you names bc you took him to eat the same type of food for his bday?? THEN GETS UPSET that hes not COMFORTING HER over a failed test? THE FUCK?
Lmao this guy is a god damn joke. He lets his women friends walk over you and disrespect you. RUN CATHY RUNNNN.
Forreal bro, its not cool that shes asking you to cut people out but your behavior and LACK of BOUNDARIES are fueling this.
Do you even like her?? Lmao wtf is this post.
Here boundaries are not legally enforceable. It's a veiled threat to put me off dating anyone. She assumes I am but nothing serious has happened, she was jealous that the other person liked me though but we are just friends.
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Why would they developmentally cripple their sons like that? Not to mention how humiliating this is for him.
I’m going to give my two cents as a vet-and this post resonates so much. Been graduated 10 years, and worked in numerous roles. I’ve travelled, done relief work, you name it. At numerous points my mental health was poor- worst when I was working full time hours in first opinion practice and doing on call most evening and weekends. Until you work it, it’s difficult to understand how this profession affects you-compassion fatigue, imposter syndrome, abuse from clients, guilt…it’s difficult to stop thinking about work when you step home.
I’ve now reached a place I can say I’m happy. About 3 years ago I almost left the veterinary profession completely, but now I love it. I actually work more hours than I used to, but it doesn’t feel it. I have a hybrid working model where I work in clinical practice half the week, then work remotely from home for another company doing something more management based. I know you said your wife has looked into other work, but has she done remote? There are telemedicine and other industry based roles available that still pay well with much reduced stress levels.
Otherwise, a therapist is the good step. Are there any good veterinary mental health charities where you live? In the UK we have Vetlife and it’s specifically for these type of issues. I’d recommend having a look at their website as may help, even a little, but you’ll need to look into more local resources.
As for talking to her-you need to for your own sake. Perhaps try and treat her, let her wind down. Give her space to speak first, ask if anything is bothering her that you can help with or do. Explain you’re worried…honestly, empathy and compassion go a long way.
Best of luck-I feel for the both of you.
you got 2 big issues,
she doesn’t respect your choice to live stealth and continues to out you and put you in very hot risky social situations
she wants to have children and you both won’t be able to unless you had eggs frozen before your transition and in that case you can only have a female child, getting pregnant seems to be a big thing for her
there’s as lot to think about, good luck ?
I'm sure he means library clerk. People think everybody who works in a library is a librarian.
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i assume you had to ask her out
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OP the simple answer is if you don’t want to do it don’t do it. It’s really that simple. The type of adventures he wants to have with you can and might cause problems. What I mean by that is he’s currently OK with it until you guys do it, and then the other guy was better in bed, or you look like you enjoyed yourself more or he gets jealous. Then he’ll make you feel worse for agreeing to it. To put it simply if you don’t want to do it. You don’t have to do it.
Ah. It's obviously the body count. You were with someone 8 years, this guy 6 months, so you had a body count of 10 by 17/18 years old? Some guys won't like that, and it's fine for them to have preferences. I think you should just leave him and get someone better suited. This guy sounds like a waste of time, might as well find someone better for you.
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Ok when you say another man, I thought it was her ex or something. Someone famous? I think you might be overreacting. It’s natural to feel threatened, but that’s irrational fear and jealousy, not based in reality. Maybe it’s just me, but imo everyone is entitled to a celebrity crush. However, in the spirit of transparency you can certainly tell her how you’re feeling, as long as you own your feelings as your own and don’t try to make her feel bad about it.
Thank you so much for the heads up and I will check out that subreddit. Those 3 descriptions sound accurate because his brother is the type that never bought the BS, whereas he is the one that takes it to heart.
Rosie O'Donnell and Avril Lavigne had Lyme disease and neither of them ever abused their partners. He's giving you bs excuses. Leave him.
This sounds like he's trying to impress a minor. I know 14 yr old me would have been impressed like hell.
How many times are you going to fall for the same lie?
Daddy chill… what were you fighting about? Why let it escalate to that?
You are not his mother. He can get out of bed himself. Alarms are a thing that exists. Household responsibilities need to be split 50/50. Make a list of tasks that are done regularly and agree who will be responsible for them. This is an absolute deal breaker. Stop parenting him.
It sucks because I fell for her. She told me she was going to show me what a healthy relationship looked like after my ex gaslit and lied to me for years before emotionally cheating on me
Just saying, you would still have a relationship had you waited.
Everything else has been great. I feel I do a little more, but by choice. She doesn’t ask for anything and is very thoughtful and thankful
Hi! Thank you for your response 🙂 I think you might have misunderstood part of my paragraph. He DIDN’T once ask me if I was okay, that’s the part that’s troubling. He never asked me if I was okay.
If you acknowledge somebody is sad, and then just leave it at that, that’s bizarre to me.
Your wife likely has a very disordered relationship with food. Get her therapy asap
That gets women murdered.
He does know his father died. He went to the funeral. Sorry I should have included that. That’s my bad. I really appreciate your response. It’s kind of starting to be a theme that they should tell him which was in fact my initial reaction but I process by talking and normally I talk to my husband so I’ve been super uncomfortable having something I need to talk about but not knowing whether or not I shoukd talk to him and I really don’t like not telling him things. I did make a basically emergency appointment with my therapist for tomorrow to speak to her about it so I can fully process it and be as supportive of him as I can be.
If it's okay with both of you, it's okay.
Realize you may be judged by others, but you'll have to address that as it comes.
I guess you would be right, but I am fairly confident if you try to look further I am not just a « warm wet hole » and would hope someone I’ve known for the past 6 years would see more than that.
I agree, she would be better with someone who is ok with regular breaks in the relationship and I would be better with someone who is curious rather than heartbroken by an event in their ex's lives.
This is very weird. Your girlfriend seems to really dislike your sister.
Can you help your sister financially without moving in with her? As in pay for her to live somewhere on her own?
Actually, yes. Yes, he is. From quite a few of us, I might add. He is wearing boxers or shorts, which is the same and perhaps more than most men wear to swim. If this girlfriend doesn't like it, SHE can leave.
What exactly is perverted about wearing the same clothes he has worn all his life when he is in his own home? It's not like he changed his wardrobe to sheer, mesh thongs after his GF, and her daughter moved in. The GF isn't changing what SHE is wearing, and a lot of people may consider that indecent. What if someone comes to the door and she is dressed like that? She has a double standard for him, and it is his home.
If you have lost feelings for your girlfriend, do the honorable thing and break up with her.
Are you willing to fuck up the status quo by going after your girlfriends friend? Jumping friends is a faux pas in many a social circle.
Billions of people on the planet and you're trying to star in a teenaged soap opera. Chances are higher than high that this friend isn't who you're going to be with in a few years anyway.
and paid nothing to raise affair baby.
Did we read the same post bro?
His view is bullshit. If you go down this road you open yourself to being gas lighted again and again. Your signaling that his behavior is ok. Which it absolutely is not. You did nothing wrong, he did. Take action for yourself. You are worth more than this.
As I said, I thought of myself as a person who could see past physical attraction, but I don't think I was mature enough in dating to see that I couldn't.
Which is my mistake, I understand that.
Love
“I can't justify cheating BUT…” Lmao I hope she dumps your ass
He shouldn't have to. It's not a normal response to have a partner who is HOSPITALIZED and then abandon them there for days. What the hell.
I'd be playing cards with mine, finding books for them, etc and not being an absent, uncaring butthole
Don't know where I would be without them
Ya especially when they'll know that op knows he does drugs
Maybe – but the open marriage wasn't Sami's idea and she isn't even happy about it. She would much rather have monogamy with a faithful husband, but that isn't in the cards in her current marriage.
*perceived .. not previewed
Yeaaaa…no lol end it.. that is a long time to put up with nonsense
If someone constantly dumps trivial verbal diarrhoea on you then your brain is naturally going to shut down.
Sounds like she’s missing having you there and has to try and keep the bond there by venting to you.
How long are you going to stay long distance because she really doesn’t sound like she’s happy with it and is subconsciously taking it out on you for not being there which she links to your “memory issues”. The implication being if you were there you would remember everything. You wouldn’t but ?♀️
He is 37 you are 20. There’s your problem, you’re incompatible
Your bf is full of shit, and it seems like you already know that. Dont try to live in denial.
Omg do not keep the baby, what are you thinking? He doesn’t want to be with you, a baby is not going to fix that
He threatened to KILL YOU! That’s not needing an apology!! That’s a divorce!! There’s is absolutely no fixing this. You’re going to end up dead or in the hospital. This man does not love you not even a little bit. Why are you allowing him to treat you like this. You are not a punching bag to be manipulated at his will.
I feel like your issue here isn’t only about sex.
You tried to reach your girlfriend in a thousand ways, communicating clearly, asking pertinent questions, being considerate and all for her to just talk with you and tell you what on earth is going on, so that you might make an informed decision about your life.
She just won’t talk to you, and just seems to drag her feet and putting sticks through your bicycle wheels.
Life is too short to just keep hitting your head against a wall, op.
Just part ways amicably and find someone who wants to try alongside you.
He already took the nuclear option by being a misogynist.
I would’ve asked for a divorce long before now
Babe, it sounds like you're taking this as a personal blow to your self-esteem, and your feelings are 100% valid but the thing that's equally as big is that it seems like your boyfriend is a creep. This reflects on him, not you.
Oh , what an explanation you just did! You didnt explain anything, you iust repeated that you think they stem from insecurity , naming the reasons separately here, without explaining WHY you think so.
No, dominance over women doesnt stem from insecurity, but from a drive to possess power.
Jealousy doesnt ALWAYS stems from insecurity, come on, you at least can admit that.
I just explained ONE reason why a virgin would like another virgin, something completely different than insecurity, and you go ” Yup, thats insecurity right there!” Fucking brilliant.
Ignorance isnt fricking insecurity jesus christ. Open a dictionnary, and look at the meanings of words. But i'm gonna stop trying now, clearly you aint one to discuss opinions and introspect, at all.
And your last phrase, is that aimed at me? Telling me to get therapy for not generalising EVERYTHING a man does into insecurity sure sounds like a sane thing to do .
short answer – no.
This is a serial fake poster whose creations I've been following for over a year. They almost always write about sexual and domestic violence from a victim's perspective and have exploited countless trauma survivors. Quite awhile ago they confessed in this sub and said they needed to get mental health assistance and would stop. Obviously they never did.
My partner and i affectionately refer to that as Happy Koala and Happy Tree
Good I'm glad! How did he react?
Oh damn. Yeah, he definitely came on to her and she shut him down. I could be wrong, but there's just no other possible explanation, given he deleted texts (so clearly hiding something).
If you really want to know, you could ask her. Given she shut him down, I doubt she'd lie to you. She might ignore you or say it's not her place to say, but I don't think she'd outright lie.
Oh my god and you believe him? YOU SERIOUSLY BELIEVE HIM???
Girl don‘t do this to us, this is another manipulation tactic and lovebombing. „You‘re not like other women“ etc etc
sounds like she needs to grow up and go into the real world. you said shes a teacher so yeah..high school to college back to school. she never grew up.
I'm going to guess that you've probably actually never been inappropriately propositioned by a married man of a neighbor/One of your kids school mates. So maybe until you do you don't judge the actions of someone who's actually been there.
Therapy is expensive
you ex is right.
now kick your family until the say why they did this. and don't accept vague excuses. they sabotaged your relationship. to keep you or to embarras you.
consider leaving alone.
You don't have to be religious to have family pile on the guilt.
He was incredibly rude and HE was the asshole. I would honestly be done with him after this..he had no reason to be that much of an ass. You are in no way the asshole here..never. He is.
Oh lord ???
I mean that's cool you can go on a date with some other chick too…
Where can I watch this?
Pretty sure you have said it to her already. Just like I am sure he has said jokes and made comments about others bodies, around his GF before too….Go ahead and tell her again, won't matter though. Should make you feel better, right up till the point that she continues dating the guy. For you though? I think you should continue to not date the dude.
My father had a cancer like this. We lost him after four long years seeking a treatment that works. But videos. Pictures. Love. That’s all you can do. I’m so, so sorry for your family. All of my sorrows for yours. hug
Haha maybe you judge me from my English but this is not my mother tongue (even though I wrote my PhD thesis in English). I’m French.
I think it comes down to your own values, generally speaking love and connection to people doesn’t have any Limits.
If your own values go against that it’s fine, but not everyone lives that restricted
Play music/white noise or fuck on the floor.
Or just ignore it
Lies in your relationship are like cockroaches in your home, by the time you see one there are a hundred others that you haven’t seen. Your gf is the sort of person who lies her way through life because she can’t function in reality. You’ll never be happy dating her.
I've been reading the responses you gave to other people. If so many differences in your personality are showing up after just one year of relationship, end it. You seem incompatible and you seem to have very different expectations of what it means to be in a relationship. For instance, if she's free spirit, she will of course hate it when you tell her you don't like that she dresses in certain ways or how she wants to have certain tattoos. I understand that you're not trying to prevent her from doing those things (if you were trying to prevent it that would be controlling) but you're expressing your preference that she would rather not do it, and I imagine that if she's free spirited, she might be internally annoyed about how you're expressing to her how you don't like what she loves. It seems a compatibility issue and it might turn into resentment for you both over time. I'd say couple's counseling but… for a one year relationship? That's a blip of time and if you need counseling so early into a relationship, you're just not compatible. Neither is in the wrong (again, if you're not actually preventing from doing what she likes, but you should be able to express your preferences, it's just that what you would prefer, is not at all what she prefers)
Don't force yourself to date if you don't want to. If you're not ready, you're not ready.
Maybe talk to him about the benefits of legally being together. If something happens to either of you you can’t make the medial decisions for each other. At 7 years in your essentially married already
UpDateme!
P.s. if you’re thinking about marriage and perhaps children, remember this: you can choose your husband, but your children cannot choose their dad.
If having children is your intention you must consider the role models you are going to be. Toxic people don’t often change, instead they change their victims. If he can break up with you because you don’t answer within an hour… Is that the relationship you want your daughter to observe and expect? How is all this going to be when a baby or two is in the mix?