Geez so instead of communicating you're feelings or sticking it out w therapy until you see some progress, you decide to constantly belittle your wife for making a financial decision you're jealous of? Now you're upset she's short with you and separating the finances like you wanted? All because you pay $500 more than her into a joint acct??
If she got sick, would you make her pay the bills for that out of her own money or joint? If you weren't home and a pipe burst, is she expected to pay for that herself and then get paid back from the joint fund once youre home?
I'm glad she makes her own money bc it sounds like if she didn't you'd be financially abusing her. I hope yall split up honestly
I wonder how many other people she's responsible for it being spread to. You could have unknownly spread it to other people if you didn't confront her. I'm glad you caught it before spreading it. By the way, you did not stumble on bad news. You fucked around and found out. Dump her. Heal. Keep you're shit covered, for gods sake!!!
Just let it blow over. Not everything is a red flag or a reason to get bent out of shape. This is decades of relationship experience talking.
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If all i wanted was a wedding I would have left in 2019 when we were originally supposed to be married
Move right the fuck on. She’s 30 years old and still playing high school games go find a real woman.
Geez so instead of communicating you're feelings or sticking it out w therapy until you see some progress, you decide to constantly belittle your wife for making a financial decision you're jealous of? Now you're upset she's short with you and separating the finances like you wanted? All because you pay $500 more than her into a joint acct??
If she got sick, would you make her pay the bills for that out of her own money or joint? If you weren't home and a pipe burst, is she expected to pay for that herself and then get paid back from the joint fund once youre home?
I'm glad she makes her own money bc it sounds like if she didn't you'd be financially abusing her. I hope yall split up honestly
I wonder how many other people she's responsible for it being spread to. You could have unknownly spread it to other people if you didn't confront her. I'm glad you caught it before spreading it. By the way, you did not stumble on bad news. You fucked around and found out. Dump her. Heal. Keep you're shit covered, for gods sake!!!
First mistake:
Thinking that she would be fine with seeing you get a blowjob by someone else??
Second:
Deciding that the video of you and your ex was an (ex)cellent idea
At this point:
Say your sorries, and don't expect her to stay because you decided to end the relationship.