It makes sense that she'd want to identify with the woman in a video and the “interracial” category often gets weird and fetishy. I wouldn't read into it, I don't think it's about you.
It's not his business and has nothing to do with your relationship. If he wants to break up with you over this, see it as a positive thing. Now you know how he feels about women's rights and how he would act towards his possible future daughter, or any other decisions you would or wouldn't make about your own body.
This 'rough patch' is clearly affecting both of you, and that sucks. There's no quick fix or advice that can fix depression, but I think you should think about what you told her from her perspective.
You told us that you respect her right to be alone if that's what she needs right now, but you told her that if she insists on being alone, you'd break up with her, which doesn't sound like respecting her space at all. If it wasn't over before, you telling her she can't have the space she needs probably means it is now. I know you mean well, but you can't smother people with your good intentions, either.
i think you should just bring up how you were expecting a gift and ask him why he didn’t give one to you. did he forget it was your birthday or something? or maybe he didn’t think it’s important?
this is also why i hate dating when their birthday is before mine!! i always go all out and then the same isn’t reciprocated for me :/
It's completely possible he's lying, but it's also completely possible he's telling the truth. Sometimes my ex would masturbate in his sleep and I'd wake him up to have sex. He didn't realize he was doing that when he woke up.
And the worst part is that he STILL doesn't think he did anything wrong at all. Just blames her for being unreasonable. Smh.
It makes sense that she'd want to identify with the woman in a video and the “interracial” category often gets weird and fetishy. I wouldn't read into it, I don't think it's about you.
It's not his business and has nothing to do with your relationship. If he wants to break up with you over this, see it as a positive thing. Now you know how he feels about women's rights and how he would act towards his possible future daughter, or any other decisions you would or wouldn't make about your own body.
This 'rough patch' is clearly affecting both of you, and that sucks. There's no quick fix or advice that can fix depression, but I think you should think about what you told her from her perspective.
You told us that you respect her right to be alone if that's what she needs right now, but you told her that if she insists on being alone, you'd break up with her, which doesn't sound like respecting her space at all. If it wasn't over before, you telling her she can't have the space she needs probably means it is now. I know you mean well, but you can't smother people with your good intentions, either.
i think you should just bring up how you were expecting a gift and ask him why he didn’t give one to you. did he forget it was your birthday or something? or maybe he didn’t think it’s important?
this is also why i hate dating when their birthday is before mine!! i always go all out and then the same isn’t reciprocated for me :/
Does it really matter why she lied? There can be no trust with a liar.
It's completely possible he's lying, but it's also completely possible he's telling the truth. Sometimes my ex would masturbate in his sleep and I'd wake him up to have sex. He didn't realize he was doing that when he woke up.
Allowing is a part of the problem. Don’t accept/ allow.