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Don’t marry this man.
People don't contact people they don't know to say stuff like this for fun.
Ask for more information from this girl. If she can tell you more, she's legit. If she refuses to tell you more, I'd be a little suspect. Moat people, if they are inventing a story don't tend to think it through all the way. If this girl can give you the time they dated, if he has a mole on his thigh, his mother's name; she's probably legit.
Did they use a clinic or was it more a ….. direct deposit??
This is your warning sign are you going to stay with someone that hurts small animals, next its children, time to leave this relationship before you or your cat is seriously injured.
What he's doing isn't in itself bad in any way, what's important here is how you feel about it. If it bothers you, first, take stock of your feelings about it. Think about exactly why it bothers you, how serious it is, and what he could do to make it better: for example, would he have to stop it entirely? Would it be OK if he just talked to you about it? etc.
Once you have thought it through and know where you stand, it's time to open a conversation with him about it. No judgement or blame, those things kill communication dead.
Here's an example. Let's say you want him to stop it entirely because you think that his looking at pictures means he prefers that body type over yours. You might say:
“When I see you looking at photos of girls like that, I feel insecure because I think you're more attracted to that body type than mine. Would you be willing to stop looking at photos like that as long as we're in a relationship?”
He might say no, but maybe you can work out a compromise. The key is:
State the action very clearly (looking at big boob/big ass photos).
State how you feel about it (insecure, in my example, but replace that with whatever feeling you have) and why you feel that way.
Make a clear request (stop looking at the photos) without making demands or threatening punitive action if the answer isn't to your liking.
If the answer is no, try to work out a compromise.
The idea here is that our deepest human connections center around needs. We all need love, safety, security, caring and so forth. He will understand your need, because we all share the same needs. Then he can truly empathize with you and want to reach a solution that works for both of you.
It's important to understand the difference between a need and a strategy. For example, security is a need. Him not looking at those photos would be a strategy to get the need met, not a need in and of itself.
Or, maybe just having a talk with him to settle your mind would be all it takes, in which case you could encourage him to talk about why he likes that body type, and whether or not he would rather be in a relationship with one of them.
It's definitely worth working on because he's with you, not with one a girl like in the photos. That says something.
He's just shown you who he is as a person right there. A completely unfeeling, callous, cheating SOB. I know you're hurting right now, but you are worthy of love and respect. This man will give you neither. You will heal in time.
Why get with someone to be begin with that has completely different values then yourself? Should’ve left a long time ago, on the bright side you’re only 32, have a great career and plenty of time to online your best life going forward.
So break up and in time be friends. Probably taking the rage troll bait here, but you honestly can’t see what a terrible person you are here? And the answer is so simple…. It’s time to break up.