Don’t get married be grateful you’re not married. He is abusive he is punishing you for having sex prior to being with him. Your relationship with Matt is toxic and if there’s another guy life is far too short to waste happiness. Leave Matt and try with Tyler.
Why does it matter if she’s had sex with 5 people? If she’d been in one relationship that entire time and had sex with that one person 6000 times would that be better? Worse?
It makes no damn difference!
If you had been in a long term relationship and just ended it, you’d be vulnerable and likely looking for a way to “forget” about your ex for a while. For a lot of people that means rebounding and having sex with someone you have no emotional attachment to.
When you’re down and out you look for someone or something to make you feel better and wanted.
Having had sex with 5 people is nothing. You aren’t the keeper of her pussy. Holding some ridiculous moral high ground over the difference of 3 people is pretty funny. You have Zero idea what she thought of those people when she has sex with them. It’s possible she just wanted to get laid (like most of us) or that she had significant feelings for each person.
You can choose to be in this relationship or not. It sounds like you’re a bit immature at this point to be in a serious relationship.
I cut my brother off after my daughter was born. I couldnt stand his self important attitude and when I told him to be decent for our mother's sake, he continued being shitty.
It's fantastic. I don't have to bother with any of his bullshit. I don't have to plan around a phone call for First Born Perfect Boy Baby.
Embrace dropping the rope and ignoring them from your life. Embrace not having 3 hour calls from your mother about why you need to be the bigger person.
Your heart was broken? That's interesting, since this happened at month one and yet you're still in the relationship at year one.
I think you might be guilty of a little bit of hyperbole.
Don’t get married be grateful you’re not married. He is abusive he is punishing you for having sex prior to being with him. Your relationship with Matt is toxic and if there’s another guy life is far too short to waste happiness. Leave Matt and try with Tyler.
Why does it matter if she’s had sex with 5 people? If she’d been in one relationship that entire time and had sex with that one person 6000 times would that be better? Worse?
It makes no damn difference!
If you had been in a long term relationship and just ended it, you’d be vulnerable and likely looking for a way to “forget” about your ex for a while. For a lot of people that means rebounding and having sex with someone you have no emotional attachment to.
When you’re down and out you look for someone or something to make you feel better and wanted.
Having had sex with 5 people is nothing. You aren’t the keeper of her pussy. Holding some ridiculous moral high ground over the difference of 3 people is pretty funny. You have Zero idea what she thought of those people when she has sex with them. It’s possible she just wanted to get laid (like most of us) or that she had significant feelings for each person.
You can choose to be in this relationship or not. It sounds like you’re a bit immature at this point to be in a serious relationship.
Um I don't think the gift is the real issue here…
This guy is nuts.
4 MONTHS.
Last week, He told me he loves me, he wants to get married to me and called his parents and mine and said he wants to get married.
What crazy guy would do this 4 months in? I got cans of beans in my cupboard that's been there longer than you knew he existed.
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I cut my brother off after my daughter was born. I couldnt stand his self important attitude and when I told him to be decent for our mother's sake, he continued being shitty.
It's fantastic. I don't have to bother with any of his bullshit. I don't have to plan around a phone call for First Born Perfect Boy Baby.
Embrace dropping the rope and ignoring them from your life. Embrace not having 3 hour calls from your mother about why you need to be the bigger person.