Not everyone views sex as this huge meaningful event. Sex is pleasure and exploration, a lot of people can detach it from emotions. You can have sex and then remain platonic friends with that person and never sleep with them again. It’s just a different outlook on sex, in my opinion. It seems like you hold sex to a very high standard and that’s why it bothers you. Which is fine, there’s nothing wrong with you or her. But if it’s going to bother you, I think you should look for people who view sex with the same value as yourself. Your girlfriend should be able to talk about her sex life with you if she wants to. But you also have the right to have your own boundaries. So it sounds like it’s just something about the two of you that doesn’t align
Your feelings are a natural reaction to the trauma you experienced. Unfortunately, since you still live at home at 28, they are going to prepare and serve whatever food they want. You can tell them how you feel and ask them for help or deal with it, but it isn't Burger King. You can't change lunch.
Feels untrue, but should it be an honest submission, break up with her. The amount of counseling that girl needs and work she needs to do for herself will likely break you.
-check to make sure you're a healthy weight. I used to get nude super easily and my doctor said it was because of my weight. Sense losing some of the weight, I noticed I don't get hard as easily
I think open relationships are about trust and not pressuring. You pressured him and the started filling dating the other guy that you knew your partner was uncomfortable about. For the open relationship to work, your partners comfort should have been first. That being said you need to pick yourself up and carry this lesson into thenext relationship because your partner deserves better
He’s lying for sure.
Break up with her. She’s for the streets. Hopefully she can terminate the pregnancy for your sake
Not everyone views sex as this huge meaningful event. Sex is pleasure and exploration, a lot of people can detach it from emotions. You can have sex and then remain platonic friends with that person and never sleep with them again. It’s just a different outlook on sex, in my opinion. It seems like you hold sex to a very high standard and that’s why it bothers you. Which is fine, there’s nothing wrong with you or her. But if it’s going to bother you, I think you should look for people who view sex with the same value as yourself. Your girlfriend should be able to talk about her sex life with you if she wants to. But you also have the right to have your own boundaries. So it sounds like it’s just something about the two of you that doesn’t align
Your feelings are a natural reaction to the trauma you experienced. Unfortunately, since you still live at home at 28, they are going to prepare and serve whatever food they want. You can tell them how you feel and ask them for help or deal with it, but it isn't Burger King. You can't change lunch.
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Feels untrue, but should it be an honest submission, break up with her. The amount of counseling that girl needs and work she needs to do for herself will likely break you.
It’s not assault. She’s an ex. Leave it in the rear view mirror. You behaved like a child and should be embarrassed though.
How long have you been together?
get a fan
-don't lay under the covers with her
-wrap her in the covers before cuddling her
-check to make sure you're a healthy weight. I used to get nude super easily and my doctor said it was because of my weight. Sense losing some of the weight, I noticed I don't get hard as easily
I think open relationships are about trust and not pressuring. You pressured him and the started filling dating the other guy that you knew your partner was uncomfortable about. For the open relationship to work, your partners comfort should have been first. That being said you need to pick yourself up and carry this lesson into thenext relationship because your partner deserves better