Distance makes the heart grow fonder they say so yes tell her now and if sheโs hurt then she can have time to think diligently about what you mean to each other. Btw drinking and snorting isnโt an excuse so donโt try to justify your shit sheโll hate that plus whenever you drink or do coke youโll have cheated in her mind automatically.
No truly, intimate deep meaningful relationship survives an open relationship experience. Itโs not meant to those are supposed to be sexual experiences and you lost her the minute. You ask her to do it. I hope you learn from this and never do it again because they all in badly like this keep your Dโฆk where it belongs in your relationships, and youโll have less of a problem in the future.
If he doesn't love you after 11 months, it's doubtful that there's anything you could do to change it.
However, you should still make those positive changes in your life, support him like you would any other friend, and sees what happens; but I wouldn't put my love life on hold for him.
I don't know why there's such stigma around being the first person to say I love you. In my opinion if you love someone you want to shout it from the rafters and holding it in is torture. Yet some people have a fear of saying it or moreover saying it first. And since you haven't said it either, it's just as much on you as him.
If it was me, I would just say it. Casually throw it into a conversation and see how he reacts. If he makes a big deal about it, then he's been waiting for you to say it. If he doesn't then he feels like he already has but maybe you're not taking the way he is saying it into consideration.
Even if she was at your highest guess if 22 that is still way too young for a 32 year old and would still be predatory. I think learning this information would be something I couldn't get over either.
They always think theyโre the exception.
Distance makes the heart grow fonder they say so yes tell her now and if sheโs hurt then she can have time to think diligently about what you mean to each other. Btw drinking and snorting isnโt an excuse so donโt try to justify your shit sheโll hate that plus whenever you drink or do coke youโll have cheated in her mind automatically.
“I want to talk to him”
Why?! Fucking why do you want to talk to and continue a relationship with an abuser?
Are they lovers? They sure sound like it. Cut them out of your life and leave them alone
No truly, intimate deep meaningful relationship survives an open relationship experience. Itโs not meant to those are supposed to be sexual experiences and you lost her the minute. You ask her to do it. I hope you learn from this and never do it again because they all in badly like this keep your Dโฆk where it belongs in your relationships, and youโll have less of a problem in the future.
If he doesn't love you after 11 months, it's doubtful that there's anything you could do to change it.
However, you should still make those positive changes in your life, support him like you would any other friend, and sees what happens; but I wouldn't put my love life on hold for him.
I don't know why there's such stigma around being the first person to say I love you. In my opinion if you love someone you want to shout it from the rafters and holding it in is torture. Yet some people have a fear of saying it or moreover saying it first. And since you haven't said it either, it's just as much on you as him.
If it was me, I would just say it. Casually throw it into a conversation and see how he reacts. If he makes a big deal about it, then he's been waiting for you to say it. If he doesn't then he feels like he already has but maybe you're not taking the way he is saying it into consideration.
Leave him alone.
Even if she was at your highest guess if 22 that is still way too young for a 32 year old and would still be predatory. I think learning this information would be something I couldn't get over either.
Can he visit when you are there and get a feel for it? If he doesn't like it and you do then break up. If he does, then that may solve the problem.