You may end up eating the cost of your car (1990 Miata! This is heartbreaking!) in order to improve your life by scuttling the dead weight (your crappy bf).
If you think you'll can actually get $$ out of him in court, go for it! Of not, consider it a lesson learned.
Just ask yourself why someone his age isnβt having any luck with girls his own age.
If there is a good answer to that it might be okay. Maybe he went through a rough divorce and he learned good things. Maybe he grew and is otherwise successful.
β¦ or people his own age have found him to be a bum, and heβs interested in younger girls because they have lower expectations.
Yeah we weren't in a serious relationship but we still had agreed to communicate about other partners. He's saying it's rape by deception because if he had known that I was sleeping with other people and that my condom usage was not 100%, he would not have slept with me.
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You may end up eating the cost of your car (1990 Miata! This is heartbreaking!) in order to improve your life by scuttling the dead weight (your crappy bf).
If you think you'll can actually get $$ out of him in court, go for it! Of not, consider it a lesson learned.
I don't think it's abuse because this guy seems to genuinely think she likes it. She has not communicated her feelings.
But it's headed that route
Just ask yourself why someone his age isnβt having any luck with girls his own age.
If there is a good answer to that it might be okay. Maybe he went through a rough divorce and he learned good things. Maybe he grew and is otherwise successful.
β¦ or people his own age have found him to be a bum, and heβs interested in younger girls because they have lower expectations.
Yeah we weren't in a serious relationship but we still had agreed to communicate about other partners. He's saying it's rape by deception because if he had known that I was sleeping with other people and that my condom usage was not 100%, he would not have slept with me.
I guess but he also has a few black friendsβ¦ I just donβt get it.