It’s just worrisome that she got with one of her “friends” right after the relationship. I clearly don’t trust her and I don’t want her to do the same thing to me that she did to Jake.
You got proof of this comment? Regardless, “teenagers” also means 18 and 19 year olds. I assume you know the age at which we reach adulthood in the US (seems to be where OP is from but I could be wrong)? OP has been with this same girl for years aside from their one breakup. If he really only cared about teenagers as you seem to think, wouldn’t it have been more likely that he didn’t date this woman for so long and instead pursue other younger women?
Downvotes on my comments mean nothing to me, but I love when people use that as insult. It just shows you’re chronically on-line and care too much about what people on the internet think of you.
Im not looking to trash you here, just try to think about things a little bit more before you assume and jump to conclusions. There are so so many different types of people, relationships, lifestyles etc. in this world. Whatever has happened to you may not be the case for someone else. Think about the context of situations instead of generalizing. Yes, someone 23 dating an 18 CAN be risky, but that doesn’t mean it always is, and some couples go on to online very happy, loving lives after meeting as consenting adults.
Yeah, you should leave, but if you have nowhere to go, I say wait till tomorrow, since his parents are cool with it. Also, I know it’s sad, but at least you came to the realization about kids and marriage early on in your life and didn’t wait till you were way older. That would have wasted way more of y’all’s time, and biological clocks. 11 years is a long time, especially for someone that’s only 26, hell a lots of those years, you were a teen. But, hopefully things work out for the both of you.
So first time she doesn’t get her own way over a major life decision and she flounces off and hooks up with an ex to punish you.
This is how she deals with anyone that says “no” to her. She’s an egoist.
It’s just worrisome that she got with one of her “friends” right after the relationship. I clearly don’t trust her and I don’t want her to do the same thing to me that she did to Jake.
You got proof of this comment? Regardless, “teenagers” also means 18 and 19 year olds. I assume you know the age at which we reach adulthood in the US (seems to be where OP is from but I could be wrong)? OP has been with this same girl for years aside from their one breakup. If he really only cared about teenagers as you seem to think, wouldn’t it have been more likely that he didn’t date this woman for so long and instead pursue other younger women?
Downvotes on my comments mean nothing to me, but I love when people use that as insult. It just shows you’re chronically on-line and care too much about what people on the internet think of you.
Im not looking to trash you here, just try to think about things a little bit more before you assume and jump to conclusions. There are so so many different types of people, relationships, lifestyles etc. in this world. Whatever has happened to you may not be the case for someone else. Think about the context of situations instead of generalizing. Yes, someone 23 dating an 18 CAN be risky, but that doesn’t mean it always is, and some couples go on to online very happy, loving lives after meeting as consenting adults.
Sounds like he's pretty awful and you should get a divorce.
He is hurting you. Mentally. Emotionally. And very likely physically. He'll claim it was an accident. But he will
Please seek domestic violence support services. You are valuable. You are worthy of a life where you aren't called names or threatened.
Yeah, you should leave, but if you have nowhere to go, I say wait till tomorrow, since his parents are cool with it. Also, I know it’s sad, but at least you came to the realization about kids and marriage early on in your life and didn’t wait till you were way older. That would have wasted way more of y’all’s time, and biological clocks. 11 years is a long time, especially for someone that’s only 26, hell a lots of those years, you were a teen. But, hopefully things work out for the both of you.