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Date: October 8, 2022
Walk away, the trip is inappropriate and he knows it.
You’re right. I still have my accounts, and have 2 other streams of income hitting them. I think I might kill the 9k (4500.00) every two weeks to let him know all of this is taking everything out of me, and it’s not healthy. I shouldn’t be drunk just to have to cope with my husband. I don’t really know any other way out. I’m honestly scared to do this. I’m not sure how he will react.
I see a lot of people mentioning talking to your boyfriend which is a really good idea. In general though you really can't go wrong with telling him that you like how he feels or that you like what he's doing, any variation of that is usually good. I'd refrain from using pet names that you've never discussed beforehand. I saw someone mention not to call him daddy if it's never been discussed before. i agree with that.
Honestly tho, it's really about communication. Just be open and ask questions.
Exactly how inappropriate is this?
This was a sexual assault. I know you're probably feeling some pressure externally (and internally) to not call it that because that's such a loaded thing and it feels like acknowledging that will open a huge can of worms for you to process, but that's what it was. “Inappropriate” is an inappropriate word for it, the guy is a predator who molested a sleeping girl. You aren't the first person he's done this to and you won't be the last.
I'm not going to push you to go to the cops, because going to the police is its own kind of trauma and no one has any right to pressure someone in your situation to deal with it any way other than the way you think you can handle. I WILL say that you're absolutely not safe anywhere near this guy and need to at least hold firm on no further contact between him and you. Frankly I would tell every single one of your friends as well, because I guarantee you he's already started lying to them about what happened and if you just sit and stay quiet he'll build a narrative about how you were coming on to him and he didn't do anything or some such.
The important thing to know is that you didn't do anything wrong and the way you're feeling about this is completely natural. It was a huge violation, you're supposed to be upset.
Thank you
I'm low-key terrified of saying anything wrong and losing her again, I never really recovered from when she left me.
OP I'm genuinely sorry to have to say this. But, grow the fuck up my guy.
How are you not furious with this woman? If you take her back you will demonstrate to her that have no spine and she can do whatever she wants and you'll fall back into line like the little bitch she's made you into.
Please please please, for your sake, kick this chick to the curb. Respect yourself.
Nah I bet on the former
First, being alone isn't inherently worse than being in a relationship. Context is everything.
Second, you're fundamentally incompatible with your girlfriend. You should end it for that reason alone. You're forcing it for the sake of not being alone, but you're miserable. You also have a premise that it's be with her or be alone forever. There's no other women out in the world?
Finally, you're simply not ready for a relationship. If you want to have fun, have fun. It's your life. When you're single, go ahead and do that. But since you're not, you're being disrespectful to her to hang onto her for a selfish reason while your heart is completely elsewhere. Break up with her.
That's not early at all! When I did my artificial insemination I knew I was pregnant a little less than 2 weeks later. That being said, I highly doubt this girl was ever pregnant.
Oh he certainly knows how I feel about it. And instead of being honest he’s trying to tell me it was a pop up page from porn lol it was on someone’s OF page that’s not how it works. For him to even lie after me seeing it just goes to show how much he cares.
For sure, I can completely understand that. It’s not for everyone. But some people enjoy being someone’s only person. And I think definitely calling the way they are a negative is what sucks. It implies that introverts who only want one or two friends should “fix” themselves.
And I think that sucks, but from the sound of it, being with someone like that would suck for you. Which you also shouldn’t have to do as well lmao
Sorry if I was super sarcastic in the beginning. I’m just kind of an introvert in the same way. For the same reasons. So I took it a little too personally in fairness