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Date: October 12, 2022
welcome, what a pleasure to have you here, come and enjoy a nice space together. @at goal is sensual dance hard [49 tokens remaining]
Okay, so you begged for 4 years. He's shown no inclination to change, except in short burts after you escalated, and… you still think there's something you might be able to do to change his behaviour?
He's gonna change only if he wants to.
He doesn't seem to want to. (It's hilarious he'll call himself “terrible for not helping”, in a very tragicomedy way; to me that means that he does realise what he's NOT doing.)
There's really not much you can do about it at all.
I applaud you for not wanting to get into a marriage where you're “waiting on him hand and foot”, because you deserve better.