What mutual friends are saying about it? They may like you both, but living in between two (recently?) broken up exes sounds like a suffocating nightmare. Even if you veto the idea, having a talk with them before telling her no would avoid making you look like a tyrant. You have the lease and thus the final say, but you don't want to create a weird power imbalance with your buddies right off the bat.
What mutual friends are saying about it? They may like you both, but living in between two (recently?) broken up exes sounds like a suffocating nightmare. Even if you veto the idea, having a talk with them before telling her no would avoid making you look like a tyrant. You have the lease and thus the final say, but you don't want to create a weird power imbalance with your buddies right off the bat.
Please point to the post where I said that. Hell, where I even implied it.