Have foreplay WITH him. This whole setup sounds really strange to me. I want to orgasm before sex for the same reason you do. I want to be naturally wet enough. Also my guy goes to sleep right after or loses all momentum so if I don't, I won't get any… and if I have to masturbate after cause he fell asleep I don't really see the point in having the sex just to end up having to masturbate…..but I would NEVER make my partner wait in the corner while I got off to something else. He's right, there's nothing spontaneous or even inclusive about this. I understand why he's upset.
It’s been going on for about 2 months. I just told her that I trust her but I don’t trust him and she said I understand. Thanks for the input really helpful
Have foreplay WITH him. This whole setup sounds really strange to me. I want to orgasm before sex for the same reason you do. I want to be naturally wet enough. Also my guy goes to sleep right after or loses all momentum so if I don't, I won't get any… and if I have to masturbate after cause he fell asleep I don't really see the point in having the sex just to end up having to masturbate…..but I would NEVER make my partner wait in the corner while I got off to something else. He's right, there's nothing spontaneous or even inclusive about this. I understand why he's upset.
It’s been going on for about 2 months. I just told her that I trust her but I don’t trust him and she said I understand. Thanks for the input really helpful
It's not excusable…..
I suspect the same thing you suspect
Where there is smoke, there is fire. There is definitely smoke here
If you care, make sure they are never alone together
If you don't care, let it play out and keep sulking alone while they keep growing their bond