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up close play @Goal |Be polite, NO DEMANDING!| apple crown SHOT 80| Lets have FUN! [Multi Goal]
Date: October 13, 2022
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Would him regretting it really change anything? It might give you a momentary fleeting feeling of satisfaction, but your situation would be the same and so would his. One of the first things my therapist told me post-divorce was to stop spending mental energy on my ex-wife waiting for her to “get it” or accept her share of the blame for our split. It was never going to happen and, even if it did, it wouldn't change anything.
It sounds like your former partner isn't done growing up or experiencing the wild side of life yet. I doubt he will end up with the IG influencer, but he wants the trophy on his arm and to say he lived that type of life for now.
You sound more grounded, so you need to go find someone who is done with the party days and ready to build a life together. Don't get me wrong, I understand why this is frustrating, but it's best if you try to focus the positives out of the situation, rather than the negatives.
Even if this guy didn't give you the partnership you were looking for, these experiences helped you refine in your mind what you want from a future, better partner. After you unload your baggage, you will also be a better version of yourself. We grow from our life experiences. Think of your former partner as the “starter husband”.
Life isn't competition. You don't have to get to the finish line first, you just have to run your best race over time. You may take a few side roads here and there, but eventually you will get back on your main path and find your way.
Ok, number 1 bit of advice: make better choices! Seriously, if you came home with him and a female friend like that, you’d go ape shit!
Number 2: get the damned test. You put yourself in a situation where any normal person would think you are having an affair, then you double down by saying you’re innocent so you won’t get a test? How would that look to anyone else? Heck, I’m reading your story and I think you may be gaslighting!
You need to REALLY tread lightly here, or your child is gonna grow up without a dad.
Birth control birth control birth control. Laws vary from state to state but hopefully she can do it without parental consent. An IUD or implant will last a long time, doesn’t require remembering to take/change anything, and are both very effective. Then lots of talk about STI protection. Maybe reach out to her school counselor. I doubt you can get her into counseling without parental consent but the school counselor will know all the laws and resources
I had to reschedule because she ranted and argued the night before for hours, and it just ruined my entire flow of studying up for the interview. Luckily, I was able to reschedule to Friday with no issues.
We are not LDR. We live 3 miles away from one another. I see her minimum 2-3x a week, but over the last month or so, I’ve been pushing heavy looking for work. So It’s probably averaged out to seeing her 1.5x/per week. It’s more than enough! She’s just asking me for too much and I can’t handle it right now, I got too much shit going on.
Breaking up w/her is not what I’m looking for either lol. I just want to get it in her freaking head that I have shit going on and to just be patient with me.
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It wouldn't be gender. It would be sex.
Sex has two answers male or female. Penis or vagina. Where as gender has several dozen answers
If the idea of him being a effeminate MALE, is part of your attraction, then that would fall closer to being bi-sexual because although you may not directly think of his genitals, you're admitting thats part of the charm.
Personally if a label is important to you, you need to figure out if you are OK with any la el that might be attached to you if you do proceed forward.
But only if the label matters
Trust is the foundation of relationships. You have already expressed that you don’t feel you can trust her now. So it’s kind of done, guy. Do not set up elaborate traps to catch her in more lies, and don’t set her up to lie more. Sit her down, tell her what you know (don’t ask anymore, say what you know) and either break up with her or give her a moment to come clean after saying what you know. If you feel the explanation is more lies, then break up.
It sounds like she comes from a family where she has had to perfect lying to simply live her life, and it is now a habit. She may be so passive that she would feather do this than say “I’m invited to this thing and I would like the night to myself for it. We can go out together another time.” She may fear this will anger you or cause a fight, from her trauma from dad, so she makes up tales to avoid conflict or saying what she needs.
That being said, it is not your responsibility to work through her habit of lying that stems from trauma. It’s is not your responsibility to end this habit to avoid conflict. She needs ti work on that on her own, and you aren’t required to stick around for it.
Decide what you wasn’t and do it, but don’t make elaborate games to prove to yourself what you need.
That's just not true… ever heard of common law? You can just live together long enough or have a kid and live together and BAM they own half your shit. Besides, She's already said she'd have a prenuptial agreement made so the obly thing it adds is a divorce if things go sideways
OP you should pay attention to this response. I also had to go NC with my father. Pressure from my siblings meant I had to go NC with them as well.
Your father isn’t interested in a relationship with your sister. He’s interested in his grandchild. That’s not the same thing. She’s unlikely to let him back in to her life and you’ll risk your relationship with her if you push it.
You write your post as if this is your sister’s doing. It’s not. Your father is in this location because he put himself there. He could apologize. He could admit that he was wrong and recommend therapy, he could do any number of things. His choice is to try to bully others into bullying her to give him what he wants. No one goes NC for no reason. It’s likely your sister never wanted to join the military to begin with.
You been together for 2 years and you want to propose at 5 years and get married at 8 to 10 years…your girlfriend will be middle age and too old for children…a little cautious eh?
Leave her.
She’s an idiot, and actually believes that her worth, and the worth of her relationship is down to how many people you have been with, now whether that is due to religious belief, societal pressures or something else, she’s still an idiot.
If you want to hammer home how stupid she is, tell her that if she feels dirty now, how is she and her next partner going to feel, knowing that she has had other people inside her, and one of them was you. Tell her that there’s not enough soap to get rid of that, then laugh as you walk away.
Your an adult. Time to take responsibility for all of your actions. Being angry is no excuse.
You job as husband is to defend and uplift your wife. Friends never take priority over her. Ever. Much less humiliate her or make her look bad in front of them. You never, ever laugh at her expense in front of others. Goddam. What the fuck is wrong with this guy?
Without reading comments here, I’m guessing your girlfriend thought you’d propose to her, that’s why she was crying on the way to wherever you were going (and continued crying when she figured out you weren’t going to), and that’s why she asked what you were even doing in your relationship after she realized what was actually going on. Your lady wants to marry you, bro, and you need to talk to her and acknowledge that you trying to sweep her off her feet was making it look like you wanted that too.
Break up and walk away, she's lying and hiding and IMO using you. She is waiting for your money. Block her and delete her and ghost her and protect your finances
correct. it's much more likely that the cops might confiscate his devices as part of an investigation.
and really just as a general reminder that abortion access is under threat and poses extra danger to those seeking them, and how people talk about actual upcoming abortions needs to be done with care, especially in much of the US.
If you don’t want children you don’t want children. You don’t need to “convince” yourself of anything,that’s a pretty big decision to make on behalf of another person. When I was still single I made a point to only date men who are also childfree. Not even fenceriders,because I didn’t want to deal with wishywashy guys changing their mind a few years in.
I say you break up and find someone who’s on the same page. It’s very possible. It seems abrupt and harsh but you’ll be much happier in the long run,I think.
Just out of curiosity are there any situations where it'd make it more likely a judge would uphold the order to change the name?
Why are you with this person? End things now and stop wasting your time. You deserve so much more.
It’s a fictional character anyway!!
LOL. “I know I could pick a real person like my dad as my life's North Star but this fictional nazi has some pretty good ideas…”
Ok i get it thank you
He’s lost his health insurance at the time he quit his job. This wouldn’t be able to happen unless/until he gets around to getting on medicaid.
You don't know what that is? Free speech is the possibility to talk without someone trying to change what you discuss, or try to shut you up with their behaviours or words.
you can get back deleted pics with the right application. many IT professionnals have it because it is part of their job.
Make him destroyed it with your antivirus/security app. avast and mcaffe ha that option as standard.
Well, yes, one case for example was that she wanted me to initiate more like “date nights”, just some special days or evenings where we would share moments that we dont share when we are laying in bed after work or whatever. I heard it and started to plan more things, wrote some ideas down which most she thought were bad. So i continued on and some of those date nights were very successfull and a beautiful time, but most of the time she would veto my ideas because she didnt enjoy them. So i came up with a solution to the initial problem, which led to another problem and her complaing that i was not ambitious enough and didnt have good enough ideas. Classic.
It’s already over. The only thing you are wasting is your own time and opportunity.
He’s already finding happiness elsewhere.
Your life is far from over but you have to want to move forward to somewhere else better. Lots of opportunities in the future.
Not the person you asked, but I’ll answer for myself. I hate the idea of most cosmetic surgeries, and I usually don’t like the end results either.
There are exceptions, but in general cosmetic surgery is linked with body dysmorphia and/or unhealthy societal bullshit. I don’t like that at all. I don’t like that people feel inferior, unattractive, unworthy, etc. for being their normal, natural selves. It’s sad and infuriating.
I can tell my wife every day how great she looks, how crazy she makes me, how I love her body, etc., but she thinks I’m lying to her and secretly find her disgusting because that’s what “society” (social media, whatever) tells her. And they tell her that everyone, including the man who loves her, will like her so much more if she gets some stupid surgery to make parts of her body bigger or smaller or change colors to look like the random people she sees on screens all day.
Cosmetic surgery preys on insecurity. It tells people they’re broken and undesirable and not in control. It’s presented as an easy fix where there isn’t even a problem in the first place or where a better (but more difficult) solution would involve personal discipline, like diet and exercise.
In addition to all that, I don’t like the physical results. I almost never think that cosmetic surgery makes a person look better. Unless they had a serious, obvious issue that needed to be corrected, surgery makes their appearance worse IMO.
She already has a new man
I did try a couple of ONS and ended up getting stalked, may lay low for a while…
I'd go for a good ol' social media stalking rampage.
Do you know any of your coworkers on social media? Check their friendlists if they're visible – on every platform.
Do you know anybody else who knows her? Do the same thing.
Check tagged photos of the place you work at – sometimes people post photos when working and tag the place.
Does she have any tattoos? Ask her for her tattoo artists page – Check if you can find the photo of the tattoo, Check comments and likes or if she was tagged.
Or just straight up ask her for her insta @
Y’all are so boring flirting with your coworkers makes the work day that much more enjoyable?but this dude can tell he’s flying too close to the sun he’s just gotta knock it off before it goes beyond emotional cheating.
from my understanding, she isn’t supposed to contact him so yes, she is violating her own restraining order. also, he did block her but she made a new account to message him. like i said their relationship was extremely toxic so it seems like the RO was done as a way to hurt him which worked since he’s on probation now.
Idk, what are you tryna accomplish by commenting? Wasting your time?
I'm so sorry this has happened to you. I hope you have a good support group, family and friends who can help you get back on your feet. Take things one day at a time. The first 2 weeks will be the hardest.
Having a significant other completely betray your trust like that is a nude blow to take. Your whole world gets turned upside down. Make sure to look after your mental health and have someone to talk to.
Once you are on steady ground, consider joining a club or a gym – something positive that can fill your time, where you can meet new people and that brings you joy.
I hope there is a gem or 2 in here for you. Take care OP.