Don’t fall for it. Abusive people change when caught for a week or two. Sometimes three if lucky but then revert back to old ways once they grow tired or get what they want. She will cheat again. She will gaslight you. She will fuck with your head. Stick with the original plan and listen to your lawyer.
its about the lying. i dont know how to trust her now. she lied multiple times in the past about it and again to my face a few days ago. how do i know she is not hiding more?
Request a verbal and written apology for his treatment of you and your siblings, and all back child support payments for you and your siblings in full. If he does those things, tell him you'll consider sending him an invite. But that apology would have to be Nobel Laureate-worthy.
If he's not willing to do that, then he's made his own choice.
I have a stupid question.
…so when things go south financially is it because most of the assets are cosigned? Or do they hit both credit reports when you're married?
Like could you just have your credit completely separate if you don't do that?
Don’t fall for it. Abusive people change when caught for a week or two. Sometimes three if lucky but then revert back to old ways once they grow tired or get what they want. She will cheat again. She will gaslight you. She will fuck with your head. Stick with the original plan and listen to your lawyer.
its about the lying. i dont know how to trust her now. she lied multiple times in the past about it and again to my face a few days ago. how do i know she is not hiding more?
Request a verbal and written apology for his treatment of you and your siblings, and all back child support payments for you and your siblings in full. If he does those things, tell him you'll consider sending him an invite. But that apology would have to be Nobel Laureate-worthy.
If he's not willing to do that, then he's made his own choice.