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Grief isn't a mental health issue: it's a normal emotion, like love, and there is no way through but through.
What about you: how are you feeling about losing the baby? Is this maybe something you and your wife need support to talk about together so you can connect and support each other?
I think the weight comment was probably a red herring, BTW, or at least a side issue that's easier to articulate. Sometimes you have to work through the initial arguments to find out what you're really feeling bad about.
Looked at your profile, that was a hell of a wreck! Glad you’re okay (and that it was his car not yours!)
What do you mean by closure?
Get you a girl who would treat you like Jonathan Joestar would treat his lady. ? You don't need or deserve some mentally unstable abuser in your life, cause I'm sorry but that is exactly what your girlfriend is.
Being kept in the dark as such as she did, would lend itself to a question now of actually trusting her. She intentionally didn't tell you, not until you pushed for more info.
Lies of omission are still lies, and still raise the specter of trusting your partner.
Not sure if you get what Im saying, but she clearly wasnt forthright with the info about her fuck buddy being there, that should raise questions, regardless of whether you think something would or would not happen, the fact that she kept his presence from you, could be seen as reason to think something could happen.
This sounds like an issue with how she is not you….she attaches herself to people gets really close then moves on and starts the cycle again….I would just work on moving on.
She'll possibly do the same thing to this new best friend.
Give yourself more time to get over her. Even if you get back together now nothing will be better.
The whole problem is that she ignores me when I say that I don't want to go and acts as if she knows better. My friends do wish me to get better, and they don't badger me with request to go out with them in the same breath when I tell them I can't. If you think this is “sort of petty and small mother child issue” you are welcome not to waste time on this post. I am trying to repair my relationship with my mother as I am starting to see it going down the drain because I feel like she's not considering my feelings for a lot of things, and this is just one situation among many. I want advice on how to try to communicate better with her and thought strangers could bring a new perspective. I don't really count someone telling me that my problems are irrelevant as constructive advice.
thanks for this! i’ll try bringing in snacks and offering them to people 🙂 while i’m friendly with everyone (like the few times they approach me about work), i’m not friends with anyone at all. i’ve participated in all our work events but the problem still persists.
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I suggest you break up. Not because you don’t love each other, but because you do. Long distance relationships are like cakes without sugar, completely pointless. Just start dating again when she’s back.
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The only thing you accomplish by telling him is to put the burden on him. You pile on the guilt of him not providing you attention, intimacy etc. He will feel terrible, the marriage will suck if not fall completely apart and you will have screwed yourself.
Get a therapist like someone else mentioned to guide you through the guilt. Focus those guilty energies on what you can both do to get to a better place. Dates, events, small things etc. Don't love bomb or he will certainly begin to question things.
Giggle in a bad way? Like condescending/patronising?
Seemed so out of character for her with me
“LDS” – ewwwww dude. No woman with any self respect will want a relationship with you and your kin.
I mean just the fact that he already is feeling that he wants to explore outside the relationship pretty much says it all. I imagine he has a strong need to explore if he had to bring it up. There’s no going back from that, even if he agrees to stay committed. Sadly I can’t imagine there not being some level of dishonesty, insecurity, resentment, what have you after that.
I've had a similar thing happen; please don't get back together with him. If you do, you will NEVER be able to trust him again, and that will eat away at you. You deserve someone who doesn't dump you every time they want to get their dick wet.
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Married my high school sweetheart; still not a maid. This guy is a freeloader and just because he doesn’t hit you doesn’t mean he’s not abusive. Guy doesn’t even have the self-respect to pay his portion? AND expects you to handle all cleaning/cooking etc duties. Hell no.
Thank you for your candor. I didn't see it from that point of view, and to be honest I have no idea how it got there. Could explain how my ex and I grew apart because I wasn't giving her the attention she deserved.
I appreciate it.
When you get home ask some trusted adult friends or possibly even law enforcement/ police to accompany you
Get these squatters out of your house , Dump the boyfriend immediately and document anything that is damaged or stolen so you can have him criminally charged
You deserve SO much better than someone who is going to use your place as a party house and disrespect you in this way
So he absolutely doesn't respect you, your thoughts and feelings, or your relationship.
Where's the joke in him blasting your intimate details live? Where's the respect in him telling his friends about sex with you?
There are more fish in the sea.
Believe whatever you want. Why do you care what random strangers on the internet think?
LDR's are a real challenge and usually don't work very well. This one sounds fishy to me. What's the point of limiting yourself to a nonexistent social life if the LDR is making you unhappy? It seems time to move on.
I’m sure that he wants you to be there but that can be in so many different forms.
Scary that he thinks the feminine party in the relationship should be “controlled”. Doesn't feel like a safe environment for you as a woman.
Sounds like you are a good man.
Both my long term relationships had the men telling me that I needed to wash with soap before they even considered going down on me. They also would act disgusted with other parts of me and would make a big fuss if I saved. I would venture to bet she has experienced the same.
This. She probably still gets help from her rich parents. Also, who the heck has 300k in savings already after graduating expensive medical school.
Holy shit, she sounds like successful at money, but failing at life. I’d run from her now
Thanks for your reply. I appreciate it
You keep saying “i might be delusional” “i might be stupid” and second guessing yourself. Girl. You did NOTHING . And i mean NOTHING!!! Wrong!!! Stop doubting yourself, stop putting yourself down! You were put in a very shocking and scary situation, and went into freeze mode of fight or flight. Extremely proud of you for how you handled this all and taking safety precautions!!! (Hug) I’m so sorry love. Its always painful when a person we cared about changes for the worse. But we are never responsible for the paths people take, we can try if they are Open to it, but ultimately people do what they want to do.
You are so young and I hope this move is a fresh start where you can feel much more safe. Continue to be vigilant and smart ? being a loving friend is not a bad thing, especially if you consider that person like a sibling! But yes be careful and stay safe.
I’m talking about the not letting him transition. That is not okay
Not to be dismissive of her feelings, but his fiancé is not her concern. Her decision is should be based on her situation and nothing else. This child was conceived when she was his ex gf, so it wasn't like they cheated. Also not all step mothers are evil! I'm talking from experience.
Yes. You are worth so much more, OP.
Abstaining from alcohol is the only treatment for her drinking problem. She can't be a normal/moderate drinker.
You won't be able to relax if you have to constantly watch what you are doing.
Well that’s not how friends behave. I would not marry someone that treats me like that or tries gaslights me into thinking I’m crazy and he’s innocent. Start sending Bikini pictures to his best guy friends. You didn’t do anything wrong, right?
This is…just social etiquette. Your jealousy is your problem.
This is a HUGE problem! Run away FAST! He’s trying to manipulate you to get his way, which will destroy you. But he doesn’t care because he gets to sleep around. He’s not who you think he is and true colours are showing.