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Nah, she needs to do the financial research first to cover her ass.
It's honestly the saddest way, he asked me over call. He's military so like- idk if he's starting to get curious or what. He's been married before but his ex wife cheated on him. I'm the only other woman he's dated so…I think he is getting curious to be with others and that's what breaks my heart.
How to properly communicate and how to set and maintain boundaries in a healthy way.
Color me surprised this comment is from a woman
The fuck are you talking about?
Dude, how do you not see he has an age play kink?
…are you fr right now? You seriously sat there and wrote this entire thing and think your bf is crazy? I would ask for a DNA test too. And frankly you would be single by now
Go for it! Quite polite of you to ask, I appreciate it.
Upset? I'd say she's more than just upset. She's suffering from crippling loneliness and lashed out as a result. She definitely needs therapy. I think you were too heavy handed with the blame here.
This is just a wild guess, but I think her friend, E, is more concerned about OP's wellbeing than the offense caused by her telling him to f‐off and leave her alone.
Very true, I do need to try and be more patient.
I felt like I was making progress and then I hear a story from one of my “work mums” and there now partner. She said lost touch with her first love when they were 18 to various reasons, eventually moved on had 3 kids and the separated. He did the same, they were both single for a while until he called her and told her he’s thought about her for years. She professed the same, they have now been together for 10 years and live with a lot of could’ve been a but are glad to have found each other again. She admitted she loved her husband but did think about him throughout the years.
It just makes me think… I want avoid that you know? I don’t want to settle for less. Maybe I need to stop romanticising things…
You tell him to stop playing the victim and to have a conversation like a mature person. Stop comforting him and grow a backbone.
Tell him that him playing the victim doesn’t solve anything and that those upset feelings you have are festering inside you and slowly destroying your love for him because you can’t have a proper conversation about it.
That if he wants to slowly kill the relationship by not listening and acting on these issues, he’s doing a good job.
And he will play the victim as you tell him all this. Stand your ground. And keep repeating the message for him to act like an adult and listen to you, to stop making it all about himself.
And if that fails, tell him you both needs to go to therapy to learn how to communicate to each other like an adult.
But do not comfort him.
Now, tricky part is, if he’s actually an abusive manipulator and gaslighter, he may end up resorting to anger when he realises his tears don’t work anymore. If that happens, run, because this is more than just bad communication.
No, I essentially told him that I’m interested in spending more time together and he wasn’t interested in that opportunity. Otherwise, he would have followed up with plans. It’s just weird because I really thought he was into me.
I’m in a similar situation but I’m in your girlfriends place. I went back to school and my partner has a stable job. I get a loan and work as a photographer next to my full time study. This means I work on a lot of weekends.
We made a deal to have monthly date nights. This doesn’t need to be expensive, just at home some nice snacks and a good movie or serie. For the more expensive things. We are going on vacation in a few months. I don’t have the money to fully pay my part so my partner jumps in. I don’t like not being dependent but he values the memories together more than the money.
Besides she is working on her future income so this state is temporary. It’s up to you to decide what your few on the future is. Do you see her as someone you want to marry, or is there still some doubt about the love. Also what do you value more, the money or that she will be in the memories of the trips your are going to do?
Which is unusual. Many cheaters don't mind lying to anyone and everyone face-to-face.
Idk man, i had an exactly similar situation happen before.
She went to party at her classmate's house and i was supposed to pick her up that night, but she didnt message me or pick up my calls. I didnt know where the guy lived either so yeah i was quite upset about it. Early in morning she texts me saying she had just gotten home from his classmates place, and told me she got wasted and thats why she didnt text or pick up my calls and that i had nothing to worry about because her classmate was a “very good friend”. Weeks later i found out they had sex, hence why she's an ex gf 🙂
Brugh, it doesn’t matter if she kissed or fuked the dude. Your trust isnt destroyed by the infidelity, it’s been destroyed because of how far she was willing to go to, to hide what she’d done. It gives your insecurities space to ask what she’s capable of doing. It will forever gnaw at the back of your mind.
If you have access to a therapist, see one. This is not an over night end of pain kinda ordeal. The hardest part is, she’s gonna want to be forgiven. Probably soonly too. For her, this happened a year ago. For you, it happened right now. Accepting responsibility and giving you space to feel and hurt is going to be very painful and rightfully guilt ridden for her.
I wish you both the best of luck on this journey.
You don’t have to listen to your unmedicated I’ll mother and you don’t have to have a relationship with a man who tortured you and does not appear to have even sought forgiveness. Block your grandparents, block your mom, keep talking to your therapist, keep talking to your dad, and get out there and have some fun.
Just throwing this out there – lots and lots of women like, or even prefer, a little extra on their men.
He left you behind because you repeatedly told him you weren’t going. And now you’re bitching that you didn’t get to go. You’re both childish and petty.
You are not in a polyamourous relationship. You are in a relationship with some one trying to justify cheating……Let him go.
you can't have nice things. At least I had it for 3 weeks before it was taken away…
Ouff. Someone might have to sit you down and talk more about consent
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They work on the same team, they have to communicate some times
You let this slide, she’ll think she can do it again.
I kinda hoped I read too much into all this and its not cheating. Sadly I cant go to work right now because daycare here is for 1 year olds and above. I guess I will use this time to figure out an escape plan
Tell him about it
You literally have a picture of her and her affair partner kissing. What happens when she meets her next thrill and is done with you again?
Then break up with your boyfriend. It won't be long till neither of them want you if you keep acting like this. He deserves better
Your boyfriend is wildly inappropriate and showed zero respect for you and your parents. I can guarantee their more concerned with your choice of a partner than being the bottom, which they probably don’t even have a clue what that means either
It’s way too early for this kinda shit, just break up. You’re young. She wants to fuck someone else.
You’ve been together for a year… I think youse should be a bit more serious than just seeing eachother but either way he shut em down.. I think you just need to talk about how seriously he sees this relationship at this point in time.. I don’t mean in like an accusatory way, more so just a deep conversation about where youse see this going and if he’s taking it seriously
This!!!
I came to say the same thing. If it were me, I could maybe get past the co-parenting issue and deal with it. What I absolutely couldn’t would be the actual continued outings, basically dates, and him not even informing his ex about me. Sounds like he was rebuilding the relationship with ex while still still dating OP. I hope when ex found out about his lies and manipulation she cut him off too. He’s a manipulative cheater.
In your tldr you say she was abused, that’s way more than just depression. It also sounds like you don’t believe her because of the “apparently” you added. If that’s the case you are a jerk. This is a serious issue that she seems to be trying to address. This will not happen over night. If sex is more important to you than your girlfriend getting help for the abuse she suffered then end it now.
I've never been forced to eat at a high end restaurant, have you? He can simply say he doesn't want to or he doesn't have the funds right now.
He chooses not to and then complains about the situation he put himself in.
You're a teenager working a minimum wage job and have a boyfriend (who also doesn't make any money) that has made it clear he won't be involved in the kid's life or be of any use for you. I'm sorry hun but this is a terrible situation to bring a child into. I understand how nude and emotionally wrecking it is to have an abortion but please think this through.
Yeah wtf? I’m a single parent, I have been since my son was a newborn. I was working in a restaurant when I found out I was pregnant, then transitioned to a remote customer service position once I wasn’t able to be on my feet for that many hours any longer. I moved back home for a year, saved money while I worked part time, taught myself to code, and now freelance and make enough money to live! a very comfortable life.
There are lots of resources available to single mothers, and you’re not a failure if you lean on them OR your family.
Do what you think is right. It won’t be easy, but having a child just ISN’T easy, whether you have a partner or not.
why? you don't need your anus to make a baby, they aren't genitals
“Have people I hired to Trap you in the top of a castle in Ireland with a scenic view like they are gonna do something real bad. Then it’s like super nice in the room they throw you in. Then I walk in in the same clothes masked and gloved up. Give you an astonishing round of sex and propose butt ass nude while You’re still convulsing wondering what the fuck just happened. Tell me that's not something you'd remember forever”
Fixed it. You aren't making him feel like a creep. Everything else aside from “in the top of a castle in Ireland with a scenic view” is what makes him a creep.
I’m legitimately just asking you what you would do. Like for me, I’ve had bad breakups, I’m sure you have too. It’s taken me a while to get over some, but I don’t think I’ve ever shrugged off an amazing option in order to keep feeling sad about the ex. My question to you is, have you? My honest guess is his ex reached out to him and is messing up the trajectory of you meeting each other. Either way, the answer of what you need to do is simple. Take him at his word. Keep living your life without consequence to what he does. If it’s supposed to work out it will, but at this juncture it’s on him to pursue you. In the meantime you do you and meet other people, there’s no use sinking time into people who want to be inconsistent.
That’s not necessarily a BPD.
You should think about why you didn’t just tell her. So you can think of ways to break it. You need to practice better communication and break the bad habit.
What boundries?
He met two girls looking for a doggy date he said yes
He asked you to go you declined
I don’t think it will matter.
You had your chance, as he was trying to find places near where you currently live, but you couldn’t be arsed to even feign interest.
Now you are worried because he has decided to put himself first for a change, and that you will either have to compromise and sacrifice to stay in the relationship, or leave.
Idk man I'm not good with geography
She seems very transactional. Some people just have that type of personality.
You’ve spoken to her and she’s told you it’s just who she is. She’s basically told you she’s not going to change.
You need to accept what she’s told you and move on.
How would adopting him not cut the father out? They would have to go to court to have the fathers parental right removed for op to adopt.
Why would you continue planning a wedding you didn’t want? The first sign of him not helping should have meant no wedding is going to take place.
His family is likely the one pushing for the actual wedding.
I don't understand any circumstances where someone would be really into you, go fuck someone else, and then come back and be all over you.
and she basically lied to you and lied to your friend by not telling you until you were hooked.
I'm pretty sure she didn't tell your friend, “Don't tell him BECAUSE I'M GOING TO TELL HIM 6 MONTHS FROM NOW,” so she obviously planned how this played out.
I think your initial decision to end things was the right one, but if you decide to stay with her you need to get over this.
Let him go. You have been with him since you are 14. Try something else.
I don't think that this is what she's trying to do. We've had this discussion in the past, and I told her that I couldn't do it, and she said she had no interest in it either. That being said, I would definitely think it was a red flag if she brought it up out of nowhere again.
I'd make more of an effort myself.
Maybe, maybe not.
He faked it. Maybe not up to your arm-chair quarterbacking standards, but he did a minimal job. She made his bad day about her though. She's being a selfish asshat.
My wife …says it makes her look bad to have a ” husband with no manners”.
So, no, I'm not sparing language here. Fuck her. That's dick move. Way more of a dick move than someone forgoing a touch of eye contact or a smile.
so you have no self respect or what?
Yeah she is seeing someone, maybe not dating but then she just sends me memes and stuff to not lose my attention too.
I don't want to come out as immature by blocking her and shit but how to move on from this. I can clearly see she is using me as a backup.
Lmao
Yes I know that now and regret it a lot. Also he said he would have found out eventually by inviting “her” out. So it would have came out anyways which would have been so much worse. It was better that I told him the truth when I did.
I was taking biotin and I turned a bit yellow. My bilirubin was 2.4 at the highest. It's probably the supplements, but he should really go to the doctor to make sure.
First i would say “ yes, let’s go together to get the car “ and see what he says. Then. i would confront him and blow it all up. At this point it is already crossing lines (EA). No way should you stay with someone who has done this to you twice.