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Being both the daughter and the sister of doctors, let me tell you: your workload will always be higher than most. This moment is not the exception: it’s the rule. If you really want to be a doctor, you need someone who can deal with an absent partner. I chose a different path because I want to put my relationship first. But I will also never make the money my sister does. It might be painful now, but you need to find someone who is REALLY okay with the doctor lifestyle.
That’s one of the most insensitive things you could have said to your partner.
Hello OP, I have the same issue! But not just with my boyfriend, it happens with my parents, friends, colleagues and sister sometimes. Even though I love them all dearly and enjoy their company most of the time. It just so happens I go out more with my boyfriend as we on-line in a different city now.
I’ve never been able to work out why it happens to me, it makes me feel like I’m not interesting or worth talking to, but also that I’m not putting in enough effort. Sometimes I genuinely just don’t feel like being overly chatty and I’d prefer to not talk much, not sure if you experience that? Sometimes there really just isn’t much to talk about, short of pulling random topics out of the air. And sometimes my boyfriend isn’t that talkative either, so it’s a two-way street.
Maybe you could try some ice breaker type things to reignite the convo? Nothing too crazy, just like pre-plan some topics that you can both engage with, things you saw or read that day, something someone said at work, I dunno. Or something you saw on Reddit that made you laugh or cringe. Try taking the things you’d talk about at home out to dinner with you as well as bouncing off things you experience while you’re out?
Sorry for the lacklustre advice but I hope it helps knowing you’re not the only one!
I suspect he's dealing with something and is unable to express it. I know from my own view its a release to escape from daily life. Is it right? not always, but I do take time and spend quality time with my wife as rule to not neglect her and her needs. As others have said he will have to want help in order to get out of it. You mentioned that you've spoken however I think you should try one more time and say you are distraught and considering ending the relationship. I wish you luck OP
We are currently saving for a mortgage and in a similar situation not wanting to spend extra money. I would say if you feel bad just buy her some small treats you know she loves. It doesn’t have to cost the world and it will put a smile on her face!
Oh boy a lot to unpack here lol
But first off, isn't number 5 illegal?
If my neighbors were doing this I would be beyond pissed off.
That's how you make enemies.
It's a good barometer of interest and commitment, when the consequences and stakes are so asymmetrical.
Thanks to certain biological realities, women have a couple of decades within their entire lives to find Mr Right, partner up for long enough to be sure, and then have children if that's what their heart deeply desires. New research into the effects of ageing sperm notwithstanding, women are taking on all the burden here.
An uncommitted or uninterested guy can run out a woman's clock quite easily if she's always chasing and letting him put in minimum effort; where's the harm to him in letting it ride? Showing interest and initiative takes more effort so there's a self-selection element at play.
If you can be open and honest with him, maybe it could be rekindled.
He crossed your boundaries, yes, but maybe he thought you changed your mind since at no point did you tell him to stop, and then you continued having sex.
Boundaries only work if you are firm with them.
I think I’ve set so much of my life on this person and throwing it all away feels so much worse at this time. This person knows the ins and outs of me than anyone ever has in the past so to me it feels like a part of me is dying if I give up and not try some means or methods to work on this. I get what you’re saying. That’s why I feel so conflicted. I’m not looking for a specific answer to make myself feel better I’m just looking for clarity from others who are or have been in this situation.
Thank you for responding I appreciate your comment
I’d like to know why I’m getting down voted
My husband and I were dating for 6 months when we got engaged. We got married 9 months after we got engaged. We will be happily married for 5 years this May. It really is that simple. He either wants to marry her or he doesn't.
Please speak to qualified mental health professionals as to what to do Reddit’s demographics are on the young and fairly immature side. Many good points here have been significantly downvoted and others upvoted not because of wisdom but because of immaturity and youth. This is not an easy situation. Good luck.
Now is the time to get a lawyer to ensure you have no parental responsibilities and possibly a restraining order. Even moving to another country will likely not stop any legal action affecting you, which should be your main concern now.
Up to you. I actually don't think herpes is a big deal; but lying certainly is.
you both need distance and go lc for a while, he might be in denial but he's confused at minimun, lc might give you some needed perspective.
Seriously, OP you really need to figure out what’s going on. The fact your wife is saying to just forget about it is insane.
Did you look at their text history? Did you see the photos on her phone?
This is so clearly your friend trying to cover up the fact your wife sent them to him. You need to wake up man.
Why would your wife have risque photos of herself on her own phone?
Why would your wife have risque photos of herself on her own phone?
Tell him to grow up, get over himself and stop trying to control you. If you’re “not allowed” a vibrator because “he should be enough for you”, then you should burn all that lingerie on a FaceTime call with him and tell him to get his head outta his ass or kick rocks. You’re so young, Baby girl. Don’t let a dumbass boy start treating you badly because it’ll never end. Save yourself before you need saving?
Yer a bum.
Therapists know better than to try and provide therapy to their partners. If he really were one, he'd be in violation of professional ethics. Every way you look at it, he's WAY over the line.
Maybe she was looking for a Tom Brady sextape; that would justify the “goat fucking” search anyway.
He is risking your life, especially since you’re diabetic and more prone to infections. UTIs are not something to be taken lightly. It is possible to be asymptomatic until they reach your kidneys. This is so disgusting. Are you SURE he’s washing properly?
They kinda are, yeah.
If you actually care, you need to focus on actions not on theoretical change. Do your work in therapy, and be sure to get to the bottom of this porn thing. If all that happened is that your girlfriend caught you masturbating and you were using porn then you may be in the middle of a completely ridiculous conflict.
In any case, every day you need to do two selfless acts. One that benefits your community and one that benefits your girlfriend.
Buy food for your local food pantry and go there to volunteer.
Help out at the volunteer fire station
Find your nearest assisted living home and volunteer to play cards with residents
Pick one and do it every single day.
For your girlfriend, you can come up with the list but no bullshit. Things like:
Take her car in for a tune up
Surprise her with a nice dinner
Regrout the tub
Arrange a special night out that you can afford
The key is to spend significant time every single day doing things for others and to also spent ample time coming up with the things that you can do. Action makes change.
I am not saying I will end it with them because of their size. I just don't have much confidence in pleasing myself with someone with a smaller size. I know i can use toys to help, and I've used toys in the bedroom before. Just not with my new partner. I also don't know how to have a conversation with them about this since they are already feeling insecure about sex and sexual things. I don't know how to start the conversation with them or how to even talk about it.
Therapy. Get help with your issues.
There is a difference between being scared of versus wary of.
Don't feed her. Ignore her.
If you have to respond say this in a calm voice ” I don't find what you said funny and I would appreciate it if you didn't talk about me”
Then go back to whatever you want to do.
Engaging with her only makes you look like the bad guy.
My mom always says that love is a choice. You have the choice to stay or walk away. Do not allow guilt, shame, or an external pressure to push you to decide.
Figure out what you want or need and chose whichever will make you happy. If it’s not her, that’s ok, you can take next steps. But if it is her that you want to chose to love, then figure out where the miscommunication you are having.
That being said, it only works if she is choosing to love you too.
I'm so sorry about your mom. One possible alternative would be to put going NC with your brother on hold for now. In the meantime, use the “gray rock” technique, and engage with him the absolute minimum.
Yep probably, and a deal breaker for me if he can’t discuss it with me. He needs therapy not total and complete control of the kid’s schooling with no explanation.
I think it’s less what you are fearing and more he is growing bitter seeing you become successful and take accountability in ways he never could. His life was picturesque (beneficial to him) one moment, and now that ease and “stay at home wife” stereotype he had of you has been shattered. I’d hazard a guess he’s just feeling inferior and instead of doing anything about it, he’s lashing out.
Our brains grow until 25. By 30 we are moderately experienced. By 40 we might know exactly what we want. By 50 we are the full package. At 60 cognitive decline starts.
I am glad I never married in my 20's, because my views on humanity, people in general, gender, relationships, and existence, has been shaped to a great deal the past seven years, and I'm now 43. Holy crap am I glad I didn't get kids and raise them while still “figuring life out”. The kids would have gotten bad/unfinished advice the first seven years.
Ask yourself why you think it’s selfish that you feel forgotten about when your boyfriend unilaterally decided he’s moving far away to his home country without any prior discussion. That’s a pretty reasonable response to a drastic life change suddenly. Did he mention at all where that leaves you? Did he care how that decision affects you? Does that basically mean you’re single now, or that he feels like he is?
Stop downplaying your emotions to play the supportive girlfriend. You don’t have to be supportive of decisions that drastically affect your relationship, you can actually be quite upset about that actually, and most people would completely understand where you’re coming from. You can want him to be happy while still being upset at his lack of communication and consideration
You should tell your husband this. That might help.
Full support for this comment.
Of course your wife was no longer carefree. She got something big she absolutely had to care about, a child. She had to step up.