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My name is Naruto Uzumaki , ♥Dattebayoooo! [206 tokens remaining]
Date: October 15, 2022
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Just curious, 6 years and she's not been like this until..this year.. you say? Then something must have changed. Did you cheat on her or did she catch you flirting with other people or having some sort of a 'thing' with other people?
I got to say, her reaction is very much an overreaction, almost like she's so afraid you'd cheat on her or whatnot. She's not your mother, so she shouldn't be checking up on you like that, seriously, and this is coming from someone who used to be very insecure about her partners in the past.
The reason I think she's insecure or afraid that you'd cheat is because I have done this in the past, with my ex-fiance (whom I suspected was cheating on me, but I never had proof, not until I dumped him and I found out that he really did cheat on me).
So your gf is likely to suspect you of 'something.' Or you're straying or about to. For me, I was not like that in the beginning of my relationship with my ex (we're together for 6 years too). But the last couple of years, I didn't feel 'comfy' with him ever, like I couldn't really 'relax' and feel secure with him. I also realized he was treating other women better than me…so I got very suspicious of him, insecure, jealous, etc. He of course, called me a controlling witch, etc. I found clues that he was not faithful, but I couldn't prove it so I got paranoid and controlling.
Of course, I'm not like this at all with my current partner, because I feel secure with him. My guess is your gf doesn't trust you. That, and combination that she feels that you prioritize others and are nicer/more considerate to others compared to how you treat her.
Whether or not you want to dump her over this, of course, you can dump her over ANY reasons. But yeah, I'm just giving you a peek if you don't understand her at all, she may not trust you that's why she's acting this way.
Yeah, looks like it ?
It may suck ass to move into a couch, especially while pregnant. However, you're going to need help with the baby anyways and I'm gonna take a wild guess and say the abusive sperm donor is not gonna be much help.
Have you spoken to your landlord about moving out or getting him off the lease whenever you guys renew? How often do you renew the lease?
You should be in extremely close contact with your landlord. Don't give too many details about your relationship. Ask them for discretion, but that you may need to move out if he refused to take your ex off the lease.
I’d respond to him and say something like,
“Hey man, I’m sorry to hear life has been hard. We’ve all got stuff going on and it gets overwhelming so I know how you feel. But to be honest, I’m not sure how I can help when I’m struggling myself. I’m just not equipped to support you in the capacity you need. I don’t share much but this cosplay group is the only thing in my life right now where I have no emotional responsibility and I really need to have that space for myself. This group might not be great at emotional support, but it is a great place to forget about our troubles and enjoy life for a little while, so you’re in the right place if you’re looking for an escape, but it isn’t really the place to get the advice and support you need right now. Have you thought about seeing a therapist? I know there are lots of free services out there that would be able to help you. I really can’t be there for you to talk to about this stuff but I’d be happy to help you get the help you need.”
Thank you. This is SO helpful. Thank you.
But also – what does “dippy” mean in this context? Like corny?
This degree will give him what he needs to be truly independent and happy with his child in the future.
Please help your son to achieve this dream. It's the difference between happiness and despair.
That's awesome to hear! I think the therapy will help you to kinda sort through all these thoughts and emotions. One recommendation with therapy, go in with goals for yourself. And don't be afraid to look for a different therapist if the first one doesn't mesh right… It can take a bit of work sometimes to find a good one.
Honestly, he sounds like a good dude. Does he know exactly what you are dissatisfied with? Is there something you could have communicated or done sooner to have avoided feeling this way now?
I think the best route forward is to dig deep, examine your feelings, and communicate with him your appreciation for his support, talk up his good qualities for you, but that you are unsure this will work out and that therapy is going to help you process what you are going through and you can't guarantee that y'all will be together afterwards.
It's a difficult talk, but a respectful one. It lets him know where you are at, why you want to fight for the relationship, but allows him the opportunity to walk if this is not the parth he wants to take with you.
Your focus is going to have to be on yourself for awhile, and that can be very hot for a partner to go through.
Hopefully this has helped a little!
You wouldn’t have cheated on him if you truly loved him. Idk why cheaters always say „i love my partner so so much“ well obviously not otherwise this whole situation wouldn’t happen. Just tell him so he can divorce you.
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