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Date: October 16, 2022
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I promise it will be a world of difference. As long as he is receptive and understanding.
You don’t have to suffer in silence dude!!
Gently express how you feel, even if it seems/feels random to do it. Just getting your feelings out there helps a lot.
???? say goodbye to her before she breaks your heart anymore. There are a lot better women out there. Good luck
I just togufht she was not that type of girl ?
My friend had candles and they would light their candle if they wanted to have sex and if the other person wasn’t interested they could blow the candle out
I totally agree! But my friend and her bf decided to wait until after the baby is born because it’s only a couple hundred.
Get a new boyfriend. This isn’t that hot
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Maybe try looking into something inbetween “DOING THE THING” and like, having the opportunity to do the thing? Finding a couple is gonna be tough anyway so that's a big commitment.
I used to go to swingers parties – and honestly the best part about them was that they were super optional. You could keep your clothes on and talk and drink and hang out, maybe watch some people have sex, go back home with your partner and talk about it.
The great thing is there were lots of people there, from all walks of life, no cell phones, no pressure. You could go just to have the experience, and not to actually do anything, and then decide.
You could also try the strip club together! That's a very medium step, that isn't nearly as scandalous.
Absolutely not. If you're tested and clean, what happened during the break up is yours to share if you wish to. Let him leave.
It’s a good sign. Taking a vacation together and seeing how you feel with extended time together in a different environment is another “test” to see how you work as a couple.
So, a: her body, you cannot control it. B: if her “sharing her body” is something you feel is intimate and that you’d like it reserved for your relationship that’s okay too. That is a valid feeling that you can share with her, but you can’t force her to behave like you want her to.
If she values her autonomy and decides she won’t cover up then you gotta respect that, if she values your feelings and puts in effort you can appreciate that sufficiently.
She made it your business, when she told you about her nasty behaviour…Let the man know what he's dealing with, because as you said, you would want to know if it was you…
Do the right thing…
Maybe try spending some time talking with him in a group setting. Then you can determine his level of interest in you. If he's married or otherwise taken, it will save you the embarrassment of being rejected on your cold approach.
Facebook doesn't just unblock people. If you didn't do it, someone logged in as you and did it.
And FFS you've been in a relationship for 7 years with this guy. Dude needs to grow up. He is likely behind the unblock.
As for your other concerns, I feel like sitting down and openly talking about them to her would be the best solution. Don’t make her worry about it, but just say you want to have a talk over a private dinner or a drink, just the two of you. It would also be the best and fastest way to clear up the way you feel. I don’t think you’re necessarily rebounding off of each just because you both had breakups before. I feel you’re only worried this much is because of how much you’ve started liking this individual, and as long as she’s reasonable and feels the same way, she will be there to help support you and calm your concerns. I don’t think it’s inherently unhealthy either, the “pace” of a relationship is mostly a myth, there isn’t a set pace to any romantic relationship, I know of healthy relationship where they got down and dirty fairly quickly, and others took their time. There’s no harm in either, as long as you make sure your significant other is comfortable and on the same page as you. Communication is your best friend when it comes to relationships, especially romantic ones.
Still no issue
Oh for sure, she deffo should. She deserves better than some insecure child
Ugh. The “I don’t know why I’m like this” line is such bullshit.
“Yeah, I don’t know why you’re like this either, but the fact is you are. That’s completely unacceptable, and it stops now.”
“First off, you already know exactly where I stand on this topic: I’m only interested in a monogamous relationship. So sleeping with someone else = cheating, and cheating = break up.”
“Second, you’ve brought this topic up multiple times now. You’re nowhere near as subtle as you think you are, and it’s usually in a humiliatingly public way. That, too, is completely unacceptable.”
“Third, you need to make a decision. You want to sleep with other women? Tell me now, and we’ll break up and you can have at it. But if you want to stay in a relationship with me? Then that means fully committing to monogamy, apologizing to me for being an ass, and promising to never even hint at cheating ever again.”
“So what’s it going to be?”
Absolutely not. Never.
Boi the face I made when I read that part in the story.. How gross and chauvinist can you be??
You’re married a month. Go get that annulment and go on with your life before you get in any deeper into this relationship. He is already blame shifting and trying to gaslight you into talking responsibly for his actions. Don’t let him.
Thank you for sharing your experience, I think I’m still going to opt out the relationship idea for now, I think if my moral compass is telling me this is worng I probably should listen.
Very true, thanks!
Yeah, I think after marriage the calculation changes but before that you're not obligation to keep taking care of someone or be connected to them romantically if you're no longer feeling it. It doesn't matter if the reason they're no longer meeting your needs is their fault or not.
Now, you may love someone enough that it makes it worth it to stay with them through unenjoyable challenges, so I'm not advocating that people bail at the first sign of adversity, but I would hate so much finding out that my relationship was a net negative for my partner or was missing an essential component for romantic love and that he was staying with me out of guilt.
Not to mention that he was never active duty military so he probably doesn't have PTSD or anything. Sure, he could be depressed, but he could also just not care about certain things when he's not being forced to care about them. That's a legitimate position for him to take and also legitimate for her to not be attracted to, though if her issue is primarily the weight gain then that's a risk in nearly any case and I don't know how she's going to handle any long term relationship.
Abusers make you at fault for everything they do.
They NEVER take responsibility.
Also you sure he’s even going to therapy or just telling you he’s going?
Sounds like they are. Where there’s a doubt, there’s no doubt. If she was more important you would have said it and she would have felt it. It sounds like you are more interested in keeping the door open with the other girls in case it does work out in the end.
Sit down and talk with her, approach this with curiosity. Start with “I have noticed you make comments whenever I mention my assistant, where is this coming from? (Listen) What do you need to feel secure in our relationship?”
For me, I started to worry after a noticeable drop in affection. So I brought it up to my husband and it ended up that he was stressing over health issues which decreased his drive. We both discussed what we need and were able to address the issue. He increased small, non-sexual gestures of affection and I’m trying to cook more healthy meals for us. What your wife needs to feel loved and secure will be different, but you have you find out what that is. That just might take a little bit of exploration together.
I understand. Yes for 1 day I think it would really be ok.
Does she have her own friends and hobbies? That would suck if she wants you to always be in charge of her entertainment, or her full social needs
You have only been together for 6 months and in that short period of time, you have had multiple break ups.. This right here should be telling you she is not the right one for you. Adding the fact that she is either too stupid, or simply does not care to understand what’s wrong with her going to on-line with her ex boyfriend while being in a committed relationship with someone else only solidifies why you should have remained broken up at least the last time around. Do yourself a favor, don’t get back with her again.
That actually makes it more inexcusable
This is excellent advice. I went abroad for my degree, and decided to stay there because I liked it. My Mum was disappointed, but she still listened to me talk about what made me happy, and tried to engage on that level. She visited me a few times, enjoyed herself, and we are hoping to plan another visit soon. We call each other several times a week and check in via text more frequently. That's not uncommon from what I've heard.
Op, stop trying to make them move back, and try to really LISTEN to what your son is saying. What do they like about where they are? What is he enthusiastic about? What hopes or dreams does he have? Sure, its sad and you miss him, that's totally okay. But maybe you can manage to find some joy in seeing HIS joy.
I've been using them for years and so far no problems. ??♀️
She said I was one of the more serious things she had since her divorce. Idk I want to see if I did everything I could to open conversation
You’re too young to be discussing marriage, especially when you have been dating for less than three years.
You dodged a bullet. She definitely wanted to just act single