I'm not a fan of it, not gonna lie. Sounds incredibly immature and kinda objectificationable. Like as if I don't see those people as humans, but just a tool or a statistic filler.
Time to draw boundaries! Here's a suggestion: “I will not interact with you when you raise your voice to me. When you raise your voice, I will leave or hang up. That doesn't mean I don't want to have the conversation with you, but it means the only way to have that conversation is with civility–not with raised voices.”
I suggest saying something like this in a calm time, not during conflict.
Document everything and get a lawyer. DO NOT EVEN THINK OF MOVING OUT! This would be considered marital abandonment and the courts will skin you alive.
Divorce.
I'm not a fan of it, not gonna lie. Sounds incredibly immature and kinda objectificationable. Like as if I don't see those people as humans, but just a tool or a statistic filler.
Why are you putting up with this loser?
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Time to draw boundaries! Here's a suggestion: “I will not interact with you when you raise your voice to me. When you raise your voice, I will leave or hang up. That doesn't mean I don't want to have the conversation with you, but it means the only way to have that conversation is with civility–not with raised voices.”
I suggest saying something like this in a calm time, not during conflict.
Document everything and get a lawyer. DO NOT EVEN THINK OF MOVING OUT! This would be considered marital abandonment and the courts will skin you alive.