I would drop the amount of contact you have with him waaaaayyyy down.
If you do have to be around him for some reason, be clear that you won't listen to this garbage. If you're talking on the phone, hang up. If you're in person, calmly leave the room. Do your best not to be visibly angry, since that's likely the reaction he wants.
Like sorry my guy but you don’t sound the smartest. For one you dated someone who you knew previously cheated and then you continued to date her knowing her ex-AP was still in the picture. Then on top of that you linked yourself to her financially by buying a house? Honestly what did you expect to happen?
I’m not trying to be harsh but did you ever thing rationally about this whole situation?
I think therapy. That sounds exhausting to have to send just the right text and offer constant reassurance. Especially in such a new relationship. I’d be out but I have a secure attachment style and I don’t online on my phone to make sure someone gets all the right words said so they don’t have a melt down.
Happy birthday and lots of love
I would drop the amount of contact you have with him waaaaayyyy down.
If you do have to be around him for some reason, be clear that you won't listen to this garbage. If you're talking on the phone, hang up. If you're in person, calmly leave the room. Do your best not to be visibly angry, since that's likely the reaction he wants.
It’s been really great to read this thread and watching you start the journey of self-awareness. Please update us all later! Have fun!
Like sorry my guy but you don’t sound the smartest. For one you dated someone who you knew previously cheated and then you continued to date her knowing her ex-AP was still in the picture. Then on top of that you linked yourself to her financially by buying a house? Honestly what did you expect to happen?
I’m not trying to be harsh but did you ever thing rationally about this whole situation?
You can't let cheating and lying go, or it'll keep happening.
I think therapy. That sounds exhausting to have to send just the right text and offer constant reassurance. Especially in such a new relationship. I’d be out but I have a secure attachment style and I don’t online on my phone to make sure someone gets all the right words said so they don’t have a melt down.