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Joanna and Emilie, 19 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
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I would say it’s very possible that she’s interested in you.
You could consider asking her if she’d like to meet you somewhere for a snack after school or to lunch on a weekend for you to both get to know each other better.
You could say something too like “no pressure, I don’t want to make you uncomfortable, but I just wanted to ask.” Or “if you’re nervous, it doesn’t have to be a date. It can just be two classmates having lunch.” Or something casual like that. That might make her less nervous.
Hopefully she’ll say yes!
This.
I do understand it is theoretical. I think where I got the most upset is in a dual income of $12,000 (theoretically) she wasn’t pleased with those numbers.
You don’t sound even vaguely sorry for the hurt you caused your husband.
All I hear is “me me me” and how hard done by you feel.
I hope he never takes you back. I hope you learn about cause and effect. I wish him a good life.
Might be a bit hyperbolic, but you did also demonstrate that you wouldn't take 5 seconds to message her that the plans were off.
You killed her entire evening: she got ready for a date, maybe left for your place, was anxiously messing with her phone wanting an explanation, and then got hit with a “better if I don't see you tonight.”
She might being a bit hyperbolic, but most people are when they're pissed. If you can't prioritize her, and she isn't able to go with the flow, you two are a bad fit.
Break things off, or apologize properly and decide to do better. Best send some flowers and plan a proper date if you want to actually demonstrate that you're actually sorry.
That is an issue.
However you know your timetable is erratic during workouts and that was the set up for her explosion
Leave him. You guys JUST got married???
But maybe I am just being nitpicky who knows
Oooorrrr……maybe you forgot the “ex” in front of the word boyfriend. If it were me, next time I would tell him “oh how I wish your dick was bigger” but then again, I would not let there be a next time for an asshat like this neg me to kick me down while thinly disguising it as a joke while simultaneously control freaking with possessiveness like He is.
But has she always stopped him or recently since she can’t handle being patient anymore. If she really has been shutting him down the whole time, the relationship would have ended a while ago.
Now he wants advice because she’s fed up. He’s only telling one side of this. There’s no way she’s been a bitch about this for 4 years lol
Ya. She's asked to meet some friends and specifically asked my not to come to it. I thought it was a but weird but idk. She said none of her friends bring they're so which I guess makes sense. I don't think she would cheat. She just is super self conscious about her body and she's told me that before. She just says she takes bad picture but that isn't true. I just wanna know, if anything at all, what can I do to reassure her that I find her attractive without being pushy.
Do not tell yourself you loved her. You liked her for a few weeks. Your mind really does get affected by the narrative you give it, and you are giving her a lot of emotional power over you by calling it love
The hoe comment wasn't great. Not bad enough for her to deserve an apology though. Just promise yourself you will never say that again and move on. If you apologise to her she will think she did nothing wrong and she did.
She sounds really self centered. Do not let this person back into your life ever. Block and move on.
He is being cruel to you and holding this against you to torture you. It’s something you can’t undo that potentially was traumatic for you due to being abandoned and having to do it in secret. If he’s throws in your face once he will do it again. You should not marry someone like this. This is evidence he is not going to be a good husband.
I thought you said all videos would be on your new system?
I would go over to APs place and ask questions and see the videos or have them send them all to you for downloading. Why?
Gut feeling…. your wife cheated on you the whole time. And she was with this guy full on most of the times.
You OKs her bi side and she's lieing and cheating.
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You said in here that aside from your mom and sister, your friends are your only family.
Conveniently forgetting your wife.
If you consider the friends more family than you consider your wife, then imagine what a devastating realization that must be for her.
This is why sometimes it’s ok to bend the truth, god damn who answers that question honestly and expects things to be ok after??
Ugh you seem to be forgetting she accused him of putting her out to it. I’d be annoyed too if, having had no part in this conversation, was that one that got accused of wrong doing. Not really sure the husband is having a “tantrum” as you put it.
And he is cheating too so she should leave him?
Given the pattern SHE is asking for. He's not wanting to toss any of his kids aside. SHE is the one asking him to do that. So she'd deserve it if it happened to her.
Just break up. You clearly need your BF to have a 100k job need to get a degrees probably need to buy a house in 3 years. Clearly you don’t like your BF being himself so this will never work
OP is in for a lifetime of resentment if he marries her
Out of curiosity how often do you initiate? And how often does he decline?
Ham sandwiches are delicious
I went through a pretty traumatic divorce as a child and all it produced was an alcoholic drug addict.
Don't romanticize trauma, it's kinda gross.
You are romanticizing the past. Your ex should be treated like a land mine. Avoid at all costs or face certain destruction.
I'm really liberal with my what I consider cheating and even for me this is leaping over several lines?
Sharing a room with anyone is dicey for me. Sharing a room with someone of the opposite sex? Helllllllll no. I'd be paying for and expensing my own room and fight anyone who wanted to challenge it.
Boy, your husband sure has some strong swimmers!
Boy, your husband sure has some strong swimmers!
I’m wondering about the times of both events or if your college is far away or out of state? If not than can’t you still do both? Most graduation ceremonies are held in the morning or early afternoon, most weddings (every one I’ve been to and I’ve been to a lot) are in the afternoon or late afternoon and the reception serves dinner and then dancing and cake and drinking which can run into late evening. Is there anyway you can at least attend the reception?
The fact that OP is active in r/cugarsandcubs lmao
I agree that the search for the perfect person who ticks those and those boxes will lead to an eternal search, but other than these two requirements I am very open. I will literally give anyone a chance outside of them, so if you think of it I don't really consider myself a picky person.
Most people are probably more picky than me because they want their partner to share their lifeview, interests, they maybe get turned on by whatever those markings, that look like crow feet, are called in English by the side of your eyes that grow as we age etc.
I don't care much about things like that. It's literally just “don't be overweight” and “value monogamous relations”.
OK, this world is so weird
Paul messaged Dave about how he was more attracted to his wife’s looks over personality. I scrolled up and saw Dave had said he was more attracted to my personality than my looks and nearly broke up with me early on in our relationship but stopped himself because looks weren’t important to him.
Paul's wife should break up with him, because her looks will change for sure. But your title is wrong, he obviously does find you attractive. And the part he was initially more attracted to was your personality. And he decided then that this means more than the look. Much better than Paul, because this probably won't change.
I understand that you would prefer him to think that every part of you is perfect. And actually, by now he probably thinks it – because when you love someone you can start to love the look, even when it is not the look you fell in love with.
So you are considering separating from a man you love because he thinks that you have such a stunning personality that it absolutely doesn't matter how you look? I would say that this could be someone to grow old with…
i’m queer so i don’t care about what genitals someone has.
regardless, he admitted to calling her names and yelling at her. in my opinion human decency warrants an apology. they’re both in the wrong here. she’s more wrong than he is, but he’s still wrong.
This is beyond having nothing to hide. Just talking to the AP open up old wounds. The AP cannot be in your life.
There is no reason why the AP should have reached out to you. He knows that he had an affair to you. His doing so shows that he has regards for your marriage, yourself or your husband.
If I was you I woud not be going to that event.
So why are you writing it…? Why are you acknowledging that you've put in zero effort and haven't taken your wife on a date in 10+ years and then asking how she'd feel like its some sort of mystery?
“would you fuck me, I’d fuck me. I’d fuck me hard”
Everything you posted has red flags written all over it. Both ends. Take a break. Work out these issues. Definitely do not get married without working on these issues.
Personally, I don't see the issue with using heart eye emojis unless there's specifically romantic or sexual contest. Otherwise, I use heart eye emojis for all types of situation that don't indicate flirting.
If you're already worried about being cheated on, then break up. But seriously, you sound very insecure and not ready for a relationship for period.
You won't change your girlfriend even though you are allergic to her.
My mom refused to even date my dad until he stopped smoking. My now husband told me if I started smoking again after quitting while pregnant, he’d leave. It’s a deal breaker for a lot of people.
I’m sorry for what you’re going through, though. Knowing that it’s a deal breaker for other people, too, doesn’t make it any easier.
Dated for around 6 months. We knew each other casually beforehand and moved in with mutual friends. We didn't start dating until 2 months into the lease.
interesting. Same immediate thought but I was having a brain fart trying to recall the word for it. You got it, hit the nail on the head: projection
I'm 99% sure this is fake. But if it's not, stay the hell away from this girl. You're a creep.
Bro why are you dating an 18 year old as a 31 year old man?
For a person in your boyfriend's mental state, it's a typical pattern to first push people away, and the when they leave to use it as evidence that they are unlovable.
For example, I knew a guy who complained that he could never get a girlfriend. Yet when girls approached him, he would would push them away due to his belief that he was not lovable.
There is nothing you can do in your situation. It's your boyfriend's issue and he will have to solve it himself if he wants to have a healthy relationship. Nothing that you do or say is going to make him change how he feels about himself.
What else don't you know?
the iranian yogurt is not the problem
I did not say I’m not willing to take any job. I’m in London where barely anyone is hiring, the ones that are, are doing so around rates of £10/hourly. I’ve taken jobs like that before, bare in mind you also have to pay for travel to and from work. With the current inflation rates, I’ll be left with barely anything in my pay check. I’ve been in multiple situations like that where I’m essentially burning myself out to barely survive and realised it wasn’t worth it. I’m trying to get myself into a stable situation so that I’m not constantly on edge trying to find the next gig before my temporary contracts run out (which was the case the whole of last year).
If she is up for an experimental treatment like he said then there is definitely hope.
And you know what?
Sometimes hope is the only thing that gets us through to the next thing.. and that’s okay.
It’s only over when the fat lady sings.
I am also a human furnace.
Get a thinner blanket, turn on the fan, and crank up that AC to make the house colder.
This needs to be at the top.
Block him everywhere!
Mom needs to leave him behind.
It was inn 2021 we are together almost 5 years now started dating in 2018
Yeah it will take up all of ur time. If ur bf is not home, guess who will have to assist his brother. I honestly think u should break up. It's going to be like having a kid together, except that kid is an adult and a male adult. Think about it very very carefully. Because it could consume ur lives and make u bitter one day. Just be super real and honest with urself.