Your phrasing seems to suggest that you would be fine with his behaviour if he wanted a serious relationship, and that thinking needs to change for your sake. This is a matter of consent and respect, regardless of his relationship intentions. What do you want from a relationship? If you want mutual respect and to be heard, this guy is not it. Don't just look for a relationship, look for qualities that would make a good partnership.
Your phrasing seems to suggest that you would be fine with his behaviour if he wanted a serious relationship, and that thinking needs to change for your sake. This is a matter of consent and respect, regardless of his relationship intentions. What do you want from a relationship? If you want mutual respect and to be heard, this guy is not it. Don't just look for a relationship, look for qualities that would make a good partnership.