Well, since therapy isn't available at the moment, you are gonna have to solve it together as a couple. Have a sit down and calmly explain to each other how you feel when an argument takes place. Maybe with a little excercise, when one of you are talking, the other can't say anything to interrupt. Validate each other and perhaps you come to the conclusion that you should be treating everything as “Us vs the problem” instead of “Me vs you”. Like a team.
Also just read your other posts how even though he’s stopped the fact that he ever did you don’t think you can ever be ok with him. Ok good luck finding a single man or woman who has never masturbated before. If you weren’t a judgmental asshole I would offer you advice but you don’t care
If my wife, during romance, suddenly starts talking about a work problem or fixing the roof, then it’s all over for me.
Well, since therapy isn't available at the moment, you are gonna have to solve it together as a couple. Have a sit down and calmly explain to each other how you feel when an argument takes place. Maybe with a little excercise, when one of you are talking, the other can't say anything to interrupt. Validate each other and perhaps you come to the conclusion that you should be treating everything as “Us vs the problem” instead of “Me vs you”. Like a team.
Also just read your other posts how even though he’s stopped the fact that he ever did you don’t think you can ever be ok with him. Ok good luck finding a single man or woman who has never masturbated before. If you weren’t a judgmental asshole I would offer you advice but you don’t care