I didn’t think I needed to clarify but apparently it’s needed, and I appreciate you commenting so I was able to realize it was even interpretable this way
I DO NOT MEAN FORCE HER ON TOP. I mean enforce his OWN boundary and stop seeing someone who doesn’t care about him enjoying sex in the way he likes it.
He said this is grating at him. Which I interpreted to mean he’s growing resentful. You don’t want that to happen. I even put “boundary” in quotation because it seems like a ridiculous one to have, but by all means if it’s that important stick to it for your own sake.
By enforcing the boundary I mean him ending the relationship with someone who won’t do what he needs, because he’s building up resentment over the fact that she won’t do it.
Boundaries are for people to hold themselves accountable when they feel like someone is doing wrong by them so they can maintain their dignity and self respect. If this guy isn’t getting what he needs from his partner because she won’t do what he needs sexually, then move on and find someone who will.
I’m talking about enforcing a boundary and seriously sticking to it by splitting up if it really means that much to him. I’m not talking about forcing her on top…like come on this is r/relationship_advice not r/topGbyforce
I didn’t think I needed to clarify but apparently it’s needed, and I appreciate you commenting so I was able to realize it was even interpretable this way
I DO NOT MEAN FORCE HER ON TOP. I mean enforce his OWN boundary and stop seeing someone who doesn’t care about him enjoying sex in the way he likes it.
He said this is grating at him. Which I interpreted to mean he’s growing resentful. You don’t want that to happen. I even put “boundary” in quotation because it seems like a ridiculous one to have, but by all means if it’s that important stick to it for your own sake.
By enforcing the boundary I mean him ending the relationship with someone who won’t do what he needs, because he’s building up resentment over the fact that she won’t do it.
Boundaries are for people to hold themselves accountable when they feel like someone is doing wrong by them so they can maintain their dignity and self respect. If this guy isn’t getting what he needs from his partner because she won’t do what he needs sexually, then move on and find someone who will.
I’m talking about enforcing a boundary and seriously sticking to it by splitting up if it really means that much to him. I’m not talking about forcing her on top…like come on this is r/relationship_advice not r/topGbyforce
flip it around and get mad at her for harboring such shitty thoughts about you that they manifest themselves as dreams.