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Room for live sex video chat Luna_miele
Model from: it
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Birth Date: 1987-09-14
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Date: October 17, 2022
The other day he told me he was the weakest version of himself when drunk.
Followed by, if someone gave me drugs and I was drunk enough I’d do them, or if I was drunk enough I’d probably hit you.
He is telling you who he is. He knows his alcoholism makes him a dangerous person who will do reckless self-destructive things to himself and to people he presumably cares for.
He is warning you to not be surprised when he hits you. When you are laying on the floor, shocked, after he knocks you down, he will claim it's your fault because he told you this would happen. He'll claim since you stayed with him, you agreed to the beating.
You can't fix this.
Giving him an ultimatum will not work. He is not going to choose you over drinking. His addiction and craving is stronger than any care he has for you. He's already told you he knows he is capable of striking you, and even with that self-knowledge, he continues to drink.
Your concern that he'll have sex with another person while blackout drunk is valid, and so is your fear he'll hurt or kill someone while driving drunk, or get in a violent drunken altercation and end up arrested and charged and jailed.
The reason you weren't invited to the party was because he planned to get shitfaced drunk and knew his friends would babysit him. He couldn't do that if you were present, because you cramp his desire to drink as much as he wants.
Accept that it does not matter how much you love him. He's choosing alcohol over you.
As difficult as it may be to do, you should break it off, walk away, and not look back.
Giving ultimatums or bargaining with an addict will not make them stop.
She wants to be celibate with you. The question is whether she an celibate with anyone else? Is she seeing anyone else? Is she concerned if she is messing around with you and another man she may get pregnant and not know for sure who is the father. Or she wants to be celibate until marriage.
I am so sorry about all of this. It’s heartbreaking to even hear. The only thing you could do is sue him for having the ashes back. However, it’s NEVER gonna happen. He will state he has spread them somewhere and gain the sympathy of the judge (oh I don’t have them your honour, I spread them in a beautiful seaside spot/park/forest/ whatever). I hope you had some memories made by the hospital, as we do here in the UK. If not, unfortunately all you will have is the memory of her. On the bright side, if you had a child with this guy, it would be 10000 worse. He sounds like the kidnapper/abusive type. Stop being in contact with him altogether and don’t be nice to him to have the ashes back. He will never give the back.
I totally would. I heard it called helper syndrome, as in the need to help others, often against your better judgement and/or at the cost of your own (emotional) well being. I was and still am a sucker for people I think may need help, and I'm still trying to learn how to say no to others.
You never searched him up on Facebook or any socials when you started talking to him? Only when he started acting strange then you looked him up.