As someone who went through this at a similar age and is now in my 50s I’d strongly recommend you prioritise your mum. It was an utterly awful time when my dad was diagnosed terminal cancer. He lasted 6 months,whereas the prediction was 3 years. I spent as much time as possible with him.
When he passed it gave me a huge amount of comfort that I’d done everything I could possibly do and spent that time with him.
Your loss will last your lifetime. Please do all you can to make memories of your time with your mum that will help you cope with your loss.
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As someone who went through this at a similar age and is now in my 50s I’d strongly recommend you prioritise your mum. It was an utterly awful time when my dad was diagnosed terminal cancer. He lasted 6 months,whereas the prediction was 3 years. I spent as much time as possible with him.
When he passed it gave me a huge amount of comfort that I’d done everything I could possibly do and spent that time with him.
Your loss will last your lifetime. Please do all you can to make memories of your time with your mum that will help you cope with your loss.