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I don't think it's her emotions that is an issue, it's her lack of rationality. She doesn't seem to really try to look at it from your perspective in the cases where you are genuinely confused, nor does she seem to like being wrong. She tried to make you apologize for her misunderstanding? That's her guilt tripping you, which is a form of emotional abuse also. If she's upset at you for something she did, that is absolutely not on you. And certainly not rational thinking. She also seems to misuse the term “abuse” a lot, and confuses it for “things you do that makes me upset”.
You do however seem to say some very inconsiderate things. Did you literally say “You're not eating that.” word for word? You said she's lactose intolerant, but that's absolutely no reason to give her an ultimatum. You can advise against it, but it seems like you did your absolute best to force her to stop. She can online with the consequences of her own actions, but you did ruin her night, while someone else eating ice cream would definitely not ruin yours.
Also your way of debating, while I don't think it's a bad thing, might seem to her like you're constantly correcting her, which can be annoying. She could think that you prioritize being correct over her feelings. Another issue could be that you both hate being wrong. If that's the case, it's an awful combo that if left unchecked, will lead to lasting unresolved arguments through your whole relationship out of sheer stubbornness.
She does need emotional support, and you need to be prepared to deal with it, however, she needs to be able to recognize when she is taking it out on you and guilt tripping you when you have done literally nothing. From what I've read, she seems to start almost every argument.
This is what I'm thinking: You both need to figure out what's wrong with yourselves, not each other. You both have issues you need to work on. You're both right and you're both wrong. You both suck at communicating in a healthy, mature manner. Your relationship cannot last in the long run if these issues aren't resolved. If only one of you are too stubborn to reflect on yourselves and change, it's not going to work.
Side note: I don't have the whole picture, so my advice might be shit, but I gave it a shot and hope it makes sense.
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