It’s weird that people are saying that “you knew he didn’t like piercings”, but not mentioning the fact that he knew you wanted one for years.
If he’s not attracted to piercings (also weird that a simple piece of jewelry on your eyebrow makes you suddenly unattractive), that is his prerogative. But it is not ok to make demands, insult you, and withhold sex. I’m concerned that you are considering changing something that you waited so long to do and loved before he got so upset, for a man who is being so disrespectful and making you question yourself. Personally I would let him go and find someone who loves you for you- and your piercing.
Confront the boyfriend, today, say (friends name) said you haven't been going ti practice for 3 months so where the hell have you been going??
If he says he friends lying yada yada, Say OK call his number now and put him on speak and say ask him why he told me you have been going to practice.
If he refuses that say : well that's all I needed to know, your lying and to me makes me think your cheating so I want you to pack a bag and leave until we can sort this living situation.
Don't backed down, if he has nothing to hide he will call he friend right in front of you on speaker, don't let him try and text him or leave the room, he does it right in front of you or the relevant over.
If the friend isn't lying it's to obvious he cheating sorry
Well, if you are no longer happy and don’t think it’s a solvable problem, then yes, I would breakup.
Neither of you are wrong for what you want. You want to be stable first, she is in her late 20s and wants to start a family. You both are valid for those decisions.
If you do want to try and compromise, I would just be extremely honest with her. Tell her that you realistically don’t see yourself getting engaged for x time, and kids x time after that. If that timeline doesnt work for her, you understand if she needs to move on to try and date people on her timeline.
He’s playing you.
It’s weird that people are saying that “you knew he didn’t like piercings”, but not mentioning the fact that he knew you wanted one for years.
If he’s not attracted to piercings (also weird that a simple piece of jewelry on your eyebrow makes you suddenly unattractive), that is his prerogative. But it is not ok to make demands, insult you, and withhold sex. I’m concerned that you are considering changing something that you waited so long to do and loved before he got so upset, for a man who is being so disrespectful and making you question yourself. Personally I would let him go and find someone who loves you for you- and your piercing.
Confront the boyfriend, today, say (friends name) said you haven't been going ti practice for 3 months so where the hell have you been going??
If he says he friends lying yada yada, Say OK call his number now and put him on speak and say ask him why he told me you have been going to practice.
If he refuses that say : well that's all I needed to know, your lying and to me makes me think your cheating so I want you to pack a bag and leave until we can sort this living situation.
Don't backed down, if he has nothing to hide he will call he friend right in front of you on speaker, don't let him try and text him or leave the room, he does it right in front of you or the relevant over.
If the friend isn't lying it's to obvious he cheating sorry
Well, if you are no longer happy and don’t think it’s a solvable problem, then yes, I would breakup.
Neither of you are wrong for what you want. You want to be stable first, she is in her late 20s and wants to start a family. You both are valid for those decisions.
If you do want to try and compromise, I would just be extremely honest with her. Tell her that you realistically don’t see yourself getting engaged for x time, and kids x time after that. If that timeline doesnt work for her, you understand if she needs to move on to try and date people on her timeline.
Ah… pfff…. I would be dissatisfied about HER discussing that with others in the first place rather than with you?!
What's her problem? Whatever it is… knowing “what others think and do” doesn't help.