How can her asking be a turn off? You might be feeling like it's an obligation or chore now? Either you wanna get married or don't. She's been pretty patient I'd say, and I'm sure it'd hurt to know how much you're dragging your feet. Figure out a reasonable timeline. I don't know why you guys haven't figure it out before buying a house together though. This issue is yours to fix, not reddit's.
You're going to resent her if you stay with her. End things and find someone you're compatible with.
How can her asking be a turn off? You might be feeling like it's an obligation or chore now? Either you wanna get married or don't. She's been pretty patient I'd say, and I'm sure it'd hurt to know how much you're dragging your feet. Figure out a reasonable timeline. I don't know why you guys haven't figure it out before buying a house together though. This issue is yours to fix, not reddit's.