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It will only get worse. She can't even talk about self improvement because it makes her feel bad. And she doesn't want to change. It's possible she'll come to resent you for making the switch and not her. She'll start to be even more insecure because she'll see your transformation and begin to think she's not good enough for you. She'll assume you'll be looking to cheat on her. It could spiral from there. But basically many roads here could lead to her pushing you away.
What you haven't talked about at all though is are you happy with her how she is? Would you prefer she was doing any of this with you?
Okay cool, ty for justifying my feelings. I was worried people were going to be like “well this is why you shouldn't have casual sex” or something. Like I get that nobody owes me anything but it still feels really disrespectful and bad, I don't like it. And yeah I really hope he doesn't try to come back just for sex.. after ghosting… I'd feel SO bad LOL, i'm going to delete and ignore ?
Okay cool, ty for justifying my feelings. I was worried people were going to be like “well this is why you shouldn't have casual sex” or something. Like I get that nobody owes me anything but it still feels really disrespectful and bad, I don't like it. And yeah I really hope he doesn't try to come back just for sex.. after ghosting… I'd feel SO bad LOL, i'm going to delete and ignore ?
I don’t understand why this was downvoted. Of course don’t get her a 250$ bracelet or an IOU if you don’t want to OP, but this sounds like it’d be a sweet extra gift. I’d give her a spending limit of course, since you haven’t been together that long.
She’ll get a piece of jewelry she’s guaranteed to like, and you’ll get to go shopping together; sounds like a cute date idea.
i would leave him. he trusted a random woman over you for months and kicked you out for no regard to your child; why should you give him that decency he doesn’t deserve. there’s no would i wouldn’t resent him or feel he always thought i was a liar. you’re best to cut your losses and move on.
Bottom line is he’s still going behind your back doing something that you are not ok with after you have made your feelings clear. He doesn’t respect you.
Yeah. Lots of people don’t like condoms. It has nothing to do with respect, you told him what you wanted and he responded positively. But the next time you have sex will tell the story, is he really okay with condoms or is he gonna pressure you into not using one
Can you clarify.. are you refusing to go alone, or are you not allowed? I don’t think there’s any issue with not really wanting to see someone else’s extended family six hours away, but if he actively getting in the way of you doing so?
To him, you're his pseudo gf until he grooms you enough to give up and accept that you're meant to be with him.
He's not your friend, op. I bet if you asked mutual friends what he says about you and what they think of the situation, you'd be pretty enlightened.
He does not care about your feelings when it comes to what he wants. He only “cares” and respects you when it aligns with his mission.
Lunch date? Absolutely!
Not sharing a hotel room bc it's disrespectful to your bf? Too bad. I get what I want and I want to cause your bf to break up with you so you must allow me to manipulate you! How you feel and how it affects you is irrelevant.
I think your all being pretty dramatic. The amount of men that have this kinda age gap and they get applauded for it for pulling a “young very hot girl” yet when a women does it she’s a predator? How does that make sense? Why is the mom being blamed anyway, it was HIM who pursued her, persistently by the sounds of it so why shouldn’t she go for it? She had someone who was of legal age chasing after her so why should she not go for it. The only thing she did wrong was not telling her son that led to her neglecting her relationship with him, he might even have been okay with the relationship had she just told him but she didn’t and that’s the only thing she did wrong
Is she not allowed to sprinkle pie spices in her coffee if Emily once did?
I’m so sorry that this is horribly off topic and unrelated to the entire rest of your comment… but I really had to take the time to thank you for opening my eyes to this wonderful idea ?
I am going to give you advice for next time…Don't shit where you eat. This should save you from a whole lot of future misery…You might want to look for a new place to live, otherwise life is going to be miserable while you online there.
The good news is in the divorce you will get the house and he will pay child support for the three kids, and if you never worked while married you will definitely get alimony payments…
I read every word. I’m not trying to armchair diagnose but it’s highly likely this guy is some sort of sociopath or narcissist, because of his actions and saying he has no feelings. You’ve been milked dry and used and abused and you better keep this leech from sucking anything else out of you. Please save yourself
It will only get worse. She can't even talk about self improvement because it makes her feel bad. And she doesn't want to change. It's possible she'll come to resent you for making the switch and not her. She'll start to be even more insecure because she'll see your transformation and begin to think she's not good enough for you. She'll assume you'll be looking to cheat on her. It could spiral from there. But basically many roads here could lead to her pushing you away.
What you haven't talked about at all though is are you happy with her how she is? Would you prefer she was doing any of this with you?
Okay cool, ty for justifying my feelings. I was worried people were going to be like “well this is why you shouldn't have casual sex” or something. Like I get that nobody owes me anything but it still feels really disrespectful and bad, I don't like it. And yeah I really hope he doesn't try to come back just for sex.. after ghosting… I'd feel SO bad LOL, i'm going to delete and ignore ?
Okay cool, ty for justifying my feelings. I was worried people were going to be like “well this is why you shouldn't have casual sex” or something. Like I get that nobody owes me anything but it still feels really disrespectful and bad, I don't like it. And yeah I really hope he doesn't try to come back just for sex.. after ghosting… I'd feel SO bad LOL, i'm going to delete and ignore ?
I don’t understand why this was downvoted. Of course don’t get her a 250$ bracelet or an IOU if you don’t want to OP, but this sounds like it’d be a sweet extra gift. I’d give her a spending limit of course, since you haven’t been together that long.
She’ll get a piece of jewelry she’s guaranteed to like, and you’ll get to go shopping together; sounds like a cute date idea.
You can't just want someone to be Mr. Right and hold them hostage for 3 yrs. That's not how it works.
From an age perspective she in close to her end of feasibility of child birthing. Think
Yes true
Bail and make sure to record everything I get the feeling she will not go quietly into the night she sounds fucking nuts.
Means the novelty of the sexting has worn off
Thank you for responding. I will make a report. I really just want to help them. I know she loves them, she just needs help.
i would leave him. he trusted a random woman over you for months and kicked you out for no regard to your child; why should you give him that decency he doesn’t deserve. there’s no would i wouldn’t resent him or feel he always thought i was a liar. you’re best to cut your losses and move on.
Bottom line is he’s still going behind your back doing something that you are not ok with after you have made your feelings clear. He doesn’t respect you.
Yeah. Lots of people don’t like condoms. It has nothing to do with respect, you told him what you wanted and he responded positively. But the next time you have sex will tell the story, is he really okay with condoms or is he gonna pressure you into not using one
Can you clarify.. are you refusing to go alone, or are you not allowed? I don’t think there’s any issue with not really wanting to see someone else’s extended family six hours away, but if he actively getting in the way of you doing so?
To you, hes your friend.
To him, you're his pseudo gf until he grooms you enough to give up and accept that you're meant to be with him.
He's not your friend, op. I bet if you asked mutual friends what he says about you and what they think of the situation, you'd be pretty enlightened.
He does not care about your feelings when it comes to what he wants. He only “cares” and respects you when it aligns with his mission.
Lunch date? Absolutely!
Not sharing a hotel room bc it's disrespectful to your bf? Too bad. I get what I want and I want to cause your bf to break up with you so you must allow me to manipulate you! How you feel and how it affects you is irrelevant.
And you’re letting this man child who is 8 years younger than you dictate what you, a grown ass woman, do?
Why are you WASTING your time with this guy??? He has made his lack of intentions clear and you're not listening to him
Revenge is a dish best served cold. As in, don't even give it an ounce of your energy or thought into it.
Put your energy and time into doing something more worthy. Go do that cool thing you wanted to do or get caught up in whatever you need to do.
Walk away from this guy. He's acting insignificant. Treat him as such.
To add: He says he cant handle all the “deep” conversations we have ie these ones…which also confuses me, like relationship maintenance ones and stuff
Once cheating happens it’s over.
I think your all being pretty dramatic. The amount of men that have this kinda age gap and they get applauded for it for pulling a “young very hot girl” yet when a women does it she’s a predator? How does that make sense? Why is the mom being blamed anyway, it was HIM who pursued her, persistently by the sounds of it so why shouldn’t she go for it? She had someone who was of legal age chasing after her so why should she not go for it. The only thing she did wrong was not telling her son that led to her neglecting her relationship with him, he might even have been okay with the relationship had she just told him but she didn’t and that’s the only thing she did wrong
Is she not allowed to sprinkle pie spices in her coffee if Emily once did?
I’m so sorry that this is horribly off topic and unrelated to the entire rest of your comment… but I really had to take the time to thank you for opening my eyes to this wonderful idea ?
Pack up all his stuff in to a box / bin bag and throw out the trash.
You deserve better.
I am going to give you advice for next time…Don't shit where you eat. This should save you from a whole lot of future misery…You might want to look for a new place to live, otherwise life is going to be miserable while you online there.
The good news is in the divorce you will get the house and he will pay child support for the three kids, and if you never worked while married you will definitely get alimony payments…
You shit in your bed, now you get to lie in it guy.
I read every word. I’m not trying to armchair diagnose but it’s highly likely this guy is some sort of sociopath or narcissist, because of his actions and saying he has no feelings. You’ve been milked dry and used and abused and you better keep this leech from sucking anything else out of you. Please save yourself
Why?