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Date: October 20, 2022
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I agree. An apology is pointless if the behavior doesn’t change to avoid repeating the same mistakes.
She does not apologize for anything else because birthday parties and family gatherings are important to her.
So her needs are more important than your needs? So, she is allowed to order you around, disrespect you, guilt you and have emotional outbursts because you don't do what she says?
It's funny because she cried saying she was a bad gf but when you ask her to take accountability she doesn't. So you know she didn't even believe what she said, she doesnt think she is a bad gf. she was just saying that to manipulate you, shut you up and make you coddle her. If she truly believed that she would be able to articulate why she was being a bad gf. Hanging up on you was one small little detail.
I am not surprised at all by her actions. She's not going to suddenly treat you with respect and care. She's not going to suddenly understand how to self reflect and take accountability.
Since she doesn't acknowledge how problematic her behaviour is and it's been stressing you out for years, you have to assume she will not change. So your options are accepting how she is and tolerating her behaviour or leaving. Imo I would leave if my boyfriend treated me like that regularly and took no accountability for it. You can't reason with the unreasonable. But you know your relationship better than me
This is a perfect example as to why rules and boundaries need to be established between a couple before even considering the invitation of a third party into the bedroom.
I'm not sure what was “planned”, however if there were no rules or boundaries, or if there were and he broke those rules, then there are big problems.
I would not entertain another threesome unless you can forgive and both heavily set future boundaries.
Lastly, you shoklukd always ensure the third party js aware of the boundaries, regardless of what they are, so that the experience ends up a positive one.
Most people think that their duty to their spouse supersedes their duty to their parents, when these come into conflict. However, it might be possible to work out a compromise solution, to spend some time in Mexico and some time with your parents while they are still alive.