Why dont you just say to her “sorry I dont have time for you in my life” and let her go find someone who wont fill every waking hour with shit and complaining about doing something with their girlfriend. Something has to give for you to ever have time for a relationship, clearly you dont since you are in multiple bands and require your girlfriend to beg you in order to give her any time and dont give her time willingly.
If someone doesn’t want you fully then what’s the point though. That’s like playing a game with no rules. Where do you draw the line?
Why dont you just say to her “sorry I dont have time for you in my life” and let her go find someone who wont fill every waking hour with shit and complaining about doing something with their girlfriend. Something has to give for you to ever have time for a relationship, clearly you dont since you are in multiple bands and require your girlfriend to beg you in order to give her any time and dont give her time willingly.