Yes, but you can't do anything about that. Give it some time, online your life withouthim. If he comes back then you should decide than do you still want to be with him or no. Whatever his reasons, this is not an appropriate way to break up.
It simply doesn't matter how you are viewed by them. It doesn't change your value, it doesn't change your memories, etc.
If people can be so fickle and easily swayed by some random third party, they aren't people you should worry about at all.
There's also too many unknown variables. You don't know what conversations your ex has had or what he has said. He's either tried to defend you and they won't listen, or he's still badmouthing you to them. In Neither of these scenarios will anything you say convince them otherwise.
Ok I think this is creative writing but it is very good. cheers OP
biggest giveaway is the
It seems to be a little outside of where the middle of that forest should be. Maybe I'm really anxious at this point but it didn't seem to make much sense to me. Anyway …
where while this looks like it is a big clue, it looks like you're trying to downplay it. Also while anxious you managed to notice that the pin was a bit off center and it didn't make much sense to you. Like all the other things make so much sense.
But I liked it and I'm waiting impatiently for the next part on Saturday at 20:00
No I really care about people a lot, genuinely. If someone ever didn’t like the way I did things or I upset them and they told me, I would always change. Like I’m very sensitive person and empathetic, I’m not demanding or needy, if anything he thing I want to change is how withdrawn I am. I did everything for my ex because I cared too. When he criticised me it was things I couldn’t change, like my room being too small, and he criticised my anxiety too.
So I agree with others, she probably already has a guy and is trying to rewrite the history a little to make it so she wasn't cheating, that this was a joint decision.
Do you both work? If you are the sole bread winner this sounds like she wants to keep you around for resources but wants to explore relationships with others. If she finds a relationship she likes she will leave, otherwise she wants the safety net of you hanging around.
Yes, but you can't do anything about that. Give it some time, online your life withouthim. If he comes back then you should decide than do you still want to be with him or no. Whatever his reasons, this is not an appropriate way to break up.
It simply doesn't matter how you are viewed by them. It doesn't change your value, it doesn't change your memories, etc.
If people can be so fickle and easily swayed by some random third party, they aren't people you should worry about at all.
There's also too many unknown variables. You don't know what conversations your ex has had or what he has said. He's either tried to defend you and they won't listen, or he's still badmouthing you to them. In Neither of these scenarios will anything you say convince them otherwise.
Just let it go, and move on with your life
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Ok I think this is creative writing but it is very good. cheers OP
biggest giveaway is the
It seems to be a little outside of where the middle of that forest should be. Maybe I'm really anxious at this point but it didn't seem to make much sense to me. Anyway …
where while this looks like it is a big clue, it looks like you're trying to downplay it. Also while anxious you managed to notice that the pin was a bit off center and it didn't make much sense to you. Like all the other things make so much sense.
But I liked it and I'm waiting impatiently for the next part on Saturday at 20:00
Relationships shouldn't be this exhausting and boring. You deserve someone better. Don't waste any more time with this loser.
No I really care about people a lot, genuinely. If someone ever didn’t like the way I did things or I upset them and they told me, I would always change. Like I’m very sensitive person and empathetic, I’m not demanding or needy, if anything he thing I want to change is how withdrawn I am. I did everything for my ex because I cared too. When he criticised me it was things I couldn’t change, like my room being too small, and he criticised my anxiety too.
So I agree with others, she probably already has a guy and is trying to rewrite the history a little to make it so she wasn't cheating, that this was a joint decision.
Do you both work? If you are the sole bread winner this sounds like she wants to keep you around for resources but wants to explore relationships with others. If she finds a relationship she likes she will leave, otherwise she wants the safety net of you hanging around.