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Date: October 20, 2022
Wow
Even with proof, he's not going to admit he was wrong. Just leave him alone. Eventually, you're gonna be the villain in someone's story. Oh, well.
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3 kids in 4 years is half your fault lol do men really not know what goes on with a woman’s body during and after pregnancy? Her being physically abusive is just plain wrong though.
A person who's only kind and compassionate towards people who look and think like him is – newsflash – not kind and compassionate. His level of obsession with trans people is just the start – soon he'll move on to other people he can't stand and bang on about that constantly. Most disturbing for you personally, he sees no problem with wanting you to online in a place where your life could be in jeopardy if you needed reproductive health care, where you could be sent to prison for miscarrying – just so he can save some money on income tax. Girl. Is that what you want in a man? Someone who literally does not give a shit about you?
I sort of wish you could give Yelp reviews of people so you can warn his future GFs.
They both sound like insufferable chikdren
People are probably going to downplay his actions because they only kissed (according to him) and it was 5 years ago so, be prepared for that.
Your feelings are very valid here. I'd be hurt and have reservations about someone who cheated on me and 1 tried to deflect when asked and 2 waited half a decade to tell me. This will likely sound generic but, it's up to you to decide if you can forgive him and continue to trust him. How is your relationship otherwise? How is he as a person and partner? How does he treat you and make you feel?
what do you mean by “50/50”? I just feel like I didn’t handle the situation right. I don’t understand why she talked to me so much and had so much emotion if she moved on. I think I told her too much about how I felt. And the fact I told her we can’t ever talk again while she’s with someone. I feel like I did wrong
You tell your children the truth, they are old enough to hear the truth. You have your wife there to confirm everything. Then you have your wife get the fuck out of your house.
She is the one who cheated, so she leaves.
File for divorce.
Seperate your finances NOW. Prepare the house sale.
There is no coming back from this, as it wasn’t just cheating, this party was planned and executed so everyone there could laugh at your ignorance of it all.
Let your children decide which parent they want to stay with. But they are adults (or close enough), so if they choose your wife, then go low contact with them, they do not get to support a cheater with no consequences – don’t tell them this beforehand, and don’t tell them afterwards, just stop contacting them, stop doing anything for them.
They’ll soon come asking, and then you can say that as they chose to support your ex, that they showed you that they don’t care for you, and you no longer have a legal responsibility to be apart of their lives.
If they choose you, do not stop them from seeing their mom, support them as much as you can, and hopefully they support you as well.
Remember your wife’s actions have not only hurt you, destroyed your marriage, but will hurt your children, and has destroyed their family.
Everyone has a past, including you. Some people like to remember, some people like to forget. Neither are wrong.
One of the most telling things about someone’s character is their ability to genuinely apologize and amend their actions.
God I hate cocky money grubbing tech hoes. So great to see money fill the void where their personality should be.
There’s nothing to “kill.”
But I do wonder, if “killing” a fetus is so bad why did god make miscarriages and severe abnormalities a thing ?
Yeah you need to be single for a while, it’s not normal for a partner to call you names like that.
She didn't say it was religion, some women do because they want commitment & mistakenly think that it will stick that way.
Maybe they are not sure how to accommodate your disabilities now? Have you told them the things you can and cannot do or are you still able to do the things you used to do? I would just organize something where they all come over and you can explain things you can still do with them and how you still enjoy spending time with them
He's telling you he doesn't deserve you because he knows that he doesn't care about you the way he should right now. He's likely said as much to his mentor, which is why his mentor told him to break it off. But you're nice, caring – he doesn't want to hurt you. And it's nude to reject someone who is sort of what you want, but that you just don't want to be in a relationship with. It could be timing, he can't really appreciate your relationship because his gut is telling him that he needs to be single and process things on his own for awhile.
You need to let him do that. If he's not capable of cutting ties completely, and wants to keep breadcrumbing you, you need to be the one to tell him that you are cutting him off, so that he can go work on himself and figure out what he wants. It might be that the act of actually losing you is what makes him realize that he wants you. It might be that after he's done what he feels like he needs to do, he'll be ready to reconnect in the future and be the partner that you need.
But you can't force the issue, and hanging on like this trying to talk him out of it is just stupid and painful for you both. Listen to what he's telling you. Tell him that you respect his wishes, will be unfollowing him and not reaching out anymore. You don't have to block him, just stop communicating with him. Tell him that if he wants to reconnect in the future, you might be open to it, but only if he shows up as someone who is truly ready for a relationship.
Yeah, sorry it wasn’t included, I felt like the original post was getting too long, I don’t know how to bring it up. I know that he knows better which is why I’m uncomfortable, but with the chocolates, I know it would make him seem like a major jerk if he didn’t return the favor so I don’t want him to turn the conversation into something about the actual action rather than the fact that he didn’t tell me any of this. If I had known, I wouldn’t have been upset because it wouldn’t have felt like he was actively hiding it from me.
You're doing the right thing. I grew up in an extremely toxic environment where most of my family was drunk most of the time. Immediate and extended. You are likely saving your boys from a lot of hardship and trauma as with how reactionary and insane your fiance seems to get, it's only a matter of time before he gets too lit and one of your boys says something that enrages him.
Sit down with a lawyer if you can find a free or cheap consultation, I know you're strapped, but depending on where you online, common law can play a part in this. I had friends that were together 10 years, engaged for 5 of them. When they split, the house was in Friend A's name but because Friend B had been paying into the mortgage and they had be cohabitating as if they were married, Friend B was entitled to some compensation. Nothing life changing, but maybe enough.
Lastly, good luck and just know you're making the right decision. Only your fiance can help himself. Regardless, he needs to understand that his behaviour is destructive and no sane person is going to subject themselves to somebody else's destructive tendencies. You and your children deserve better.
This is the start of a controlling, maybe abusive, relationship. Putting the woman down until she has no self esteem, she already doesn’t have friends, little family, punishing you with sex, etc…just leave this dude.
nah telling your gf that she will always come second to your deceased wife is so messed up. i understand your grief, but saying stuff like that and also making her not do certain stuff because it reminds you of your dead wife is not it. and Claire is right, you need to go back to therapy. i would even think about breaking up and focusing on yourselves before getting into another relationship.
i’m so sorry for your’s and Claire’s losses.
I think you mean his families years of exploiting other people, cause that kind of wealth doesn’t just ethically happen
I’m still firmly stuck on him opining about how fucked up it’ll be if she comes crawling back when he’s “a millionaire from his AI company” lmaooooo. Like I snort laughed out loud
Not sure if you can come back from that. He will always have doubts – you planted that seed and cannot undo it. No man wants to hear what you said to him. Your brutal honesty may have been too much to bear. It may fade over time but the sting of what you said will not go away. Give him time and attention.
I am just baffled as to why you would say this to him – true or not.
Tell your boyfriend about this thread. Now he knows some men who wouldn’t mind that. Enjoy!
Exactly. He’s refusing to let her communicate and this stupid game is definitely a ploy to make sure she doesn’t communicate in the future and just goes along with what he wants so he won’t pull this bs again. So childish.
Exactly. He’s refusing to let her communicate and this stupid game is definitely a ploy to make sure she doesn’t communicate in the future and just goes along with what he wants so he won’t pull this bs again. So childish.
You're a homophobe hiding behind religion. If you have a problem with queerness don't be around queer people and don't pretend to be our friend
It’s happened where a friend and I went to a petting zoo and he’s said that that’s something he knows that I like doing and would want to do that with me but has never planned it. And today he was saying those hypotheticals about doing things with friends that he might’ve been planning to do the next day or something. But the scenario has never actually happened. And I understand that he works a lot (he has night and day shifts throughout the week) and he usually has nights off after 7 or 8 on fridays and saturdays and a full day off at least once a week. I don’t have as much of an issue that we often can’t do stuff bc he works so much but it seems like he gets insecure about it and that I can do fun stuff with friends but not often him. But that’s what friends do. We joke in the friend group that the friend (female) I tend to go out and do stuff with is taking me on dates and we all think it’s funny. We make jokes like that at him and his guy friends too about them messing around it’s our dynamic. But i feel like maybe he’s taking it more personal that we joke that and he often can’t take me out. But he’s been trying more recently to be able to do so like going out to get food and has planned for us to go out of town for a couple days for our anniversary coming up. P.S- he didn’t say it was like being cheating on he said that it felt like he would be cheated like cheated out of being able to do something with me if a friend and I did it the day before.
i wouldn’t perform well either with this kind of pressure he’s creating.