If he was suggesting that you shouldn't have been upset, then he simply isn't mature enough to understand emotions. There is no “should” with emotions, as in “you shouldn't be upset.” Either you were upset or you weren't (and in this case, you were). There is no need to justify them, and your emotions are not “wrong.”
But again, what is happening is that he is equating the idea that you are upset with evidence that he did something wrong. As a result, he is trying to tell you that you shouldn't have been upset, which is immature. So if you want a mature relationship, you are going to have to look elsewhere.
He won't stop until he's found someone else to abuse. You need to contact the authorities and tell them what's going on. Are you in a position to leave town temporarily? His persistence is really concerning.
Then when it will not be acceptable then? As it seems, it is always fine.
He accused me of being upset
If he was suggesting that you shouldn't have been upset, then he simply isn't mature enough to understand emotions. There is no “should” with emotions, as in “you shouldn't be upset.” Either you were upset or you weren't (and in this case, you were). There is no need to justify them, and your emotions are not “wrong.”
But again, what is happening is that he is equating the idea that you are upset with evidence that he did something wrong. As a result, he is trying to tell you that you shouldn't have been upset, which is immature. So if you want a mature relationship, you are going to have to look elsewhere.
He won't stop until he's found someone else to abuse. You need to contact the authorities and tell them what's going on. Are you in a position to leave town temporarily? His persistence is really concerning.