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The grass is always greener.
You just have to wait a bit more, continue with what you are doing now. Your guy bestfriend is sure to break up with his current gf soon, then you can finally swoop in and claim him as you like. Come on, we are not stupid, you and him are just playing with fire right now, stop pretending.
He wants you to stay and put with with his crap – he doesn't want to actually work on anything.
All of what you're saying is massive red flags for an abusive relationship so I do think you need to do what you know you need to do and be safe doing it.
I think your overthinking this. I don't think there's a limit on ot unless it's in a union contract somewhere. I wouldn't think a company would let lift truck operator go to far on ot as it might be a safety hazard. Sounds like your schedules aren't doing you any good for sure.
Yup. Thankfully I can take their bs, I'd rather them give it to me than to someone who it would majority upset
The original post was removed. Did she cheat?
I don’t think you can adopt them unless their bio dad relinquished his parental rights. You can’t just adopt a kid out from under their own parent.
Listen to your sister.
The “no relationship is perfect” cliche is more complex than the statement itself. Objectively, no relationship is perfect. But some relationships are objectively bad. You need to be honest about whether or not that’s the case.
I will never get my sister to believe he's an abuser sadly.
Hey man. I spent 4 years active duty with 15 months deployed. I hate to tell you but you're banking on a bad hand. There's too much working against you.
It's going to hurt to read this but active duty military life as a 21 year old long distance will never work. Not a chance. Accept it, go to the bar, get fucked up for a few weeks, and move on.
She’s immature yall young focus on school
Have you tried sitting him down and having a conversation with him about this?
I'm sure they're close.
Yup open and honest communication is always best. Good luck!
Please tell me if it makes any sense
Yes it makes sense. He wasn't committed to you or really interested in having a relationship with you, and he still isn't committed to you or really interested in having a full relationship with you.
I dated a much older man starting when I was 19. We were together 2.5 years and I had the urge to leave and experience living with my best friend and just being a young adult. I also went through feeling bad etc. I finally did it and he understood. I look back now and I'm so glad I let myself experience a normal college life and normal living situation for my age. It wasn't easy being in college and new friends finding out I was in a committed relationship with a man more than 10 years my senior.
I'm 34 now and I look back and realized how creepy and predatory the relationship was. Ugh makes me cringe.
Break up, online your life you won't regret it, trust me
Updateme!
So she is gaslighting you in believing that you are overthinking everything, it’s your fault, and she needs space?
Break up with her and find someone who is 100% into the relationship and is going to put in all the effort.
Things seem very good because he treats you like shit otherwise! You’re not even married and he doesn’t communicate, help you with anything, isn’t looking for a job(???). This man is hopeless and helpless and if you marry him you’re in for dealing with this the rest of your life. You don’t need him, and you would be 1000x better off cutting him off for good and moving on. There are better men out there.
Dude obviously needs lots and lots of therapy. I just happen to know first hand how absolutely awful urinary incontinence is. And all the judgements making him a pervert while it quite well might be an awful trauma kinda suck.
I know I should. I will bring this topic into therapy, but I wanted other people’s opinion first.
Silly me is paying monthly for a lot of expensive stuff and while he sleeps happily I lay stressed about making enough money to pay for everything, every month.
So, one way to gauge interest is “Would you like to get together and do something sometime?”
There's no details, there's no dates, there's no excuses. Either she's interested or she's not and how she responds to that kind of question, lets you know. Important: If she is interested, follow up with a more concrete suggestion, like the movie you suggested.
She gave valid reasons she couldn't and then volunteered, on her own, unasked, that she'd be up for it when her schedule is free.
If you wanted you could even try to make those plans now. Who says you can't make plans two weeks out? “Does Feb 11 work for you?” “yep!” “Okay, it's a date, smiley face”
Don't overthink it.
Also, WHY ARE YOU DEFENDING A PEDOPHILE? You’re a mother! Your kids are in danger being around this man
I was going to chime in with the same thing. It’s not worth watching because it gets so bad, I’m honestly amazed OP’s bf suggested it. It’s one thing if all that exploitative nudity and sex is part of building towards something great, but it’s literally discomfort for nothing given how garbage the ending is.
I was a huge fan as well, and sat through some moments I found uncomfortable because everything else was fantastic and I was excited about the story. I’ve never been so personally offended by a series finale in my life.
And while people are correct in that the volume of sex scenes does decrease as the show goes on, I found them more horrible (personally) because they started to make less and less sense, and betrayed both the characters and the books. They went from being true to the story and informative about the characters so just… shock and eye candy.
Even if we ignored your personal preferences about the sex scenes, OP, the show is just not worth watching.
You can't change his sense of humour. If it bothers you that much, leave.
Because she sprung it on him whilst wedding planning? Why is that so nude to understand?
Clearly, you lashed out at her, which was wrong. But looking at the big picture, you guys are probably doomed. Children or not children is a major obstacle to overcome. If one partner wants children and one partner does not, then there is no partnership, even if your partner checks every other single box, if they do not check that box, it’s a dealbreaker, the two of you need to work through first what you said, but then after that you need to sit down and have that nude conversation as if she doesn’t want children and you do you need to go ahead and end this now, it would be for the best
He was creepy and coercive, I'd say it's a pretty apt description.
Well, what is your end goal here? Because it sounds like we're off to a bad start.
The dynamics of your relationship are… disapointing. There is no colour (or life even) to it.
This was a let's try it out and see what happens. A trial run.
And the results are… sad. Clearly its not an over the moon madly in love result.
You're not chained to stick this relationship out until the end of time. You tried the chemistry and from the sounds of it… its not there.
Even for yourself… you started this whole thing off in the mindset of:
I wasn't super into him yet but I also know that I was developing some sort of feelings for him since I enjoyed our banners and felt closer to him in my brother's friend group.
That doesn't sound like a decision made in confidence, that sounds like a decision made on a whim (let's see what happens).
And here you are… You stepped up and became the only one putting effort into the relationship and receiving nothing in return.
Not sure if this is one to even fight to fix. This may be one to let go. And find a more natural relationship elsewhere.
At 6 months.. things should be getting better, not worse.
To me the split of finances is not as important as the split of time. Taking into consideration work, school, sleep, medical appointments and commute time, how much free time do each of you have? Some of that free time should be dedicated to keeping up the house each day. If you have the day off, half the day is spent on house chores. If you only have 40 minutes that day, 20 minutes is spent cleaning. Regardless, it’s probably a good idea to sit down together and find out which chores you should be responsible for, and do them well and consistently. (I am under the assumption that you do not help with chores because several are listed that she does and you do not mention any that you take care of) and you should be partici
I love the fact the only people you respond to seem to echo your own opinion
A lot of guys jerk off so nude and so much that it's naked to come in something softer than a hand.
Dan savage writes about the death grip and how to fix it.
It could also be SSRIs, too much viagra, or or being used to lots of stimulation like porn, or lots of other things.
If you are comfortable, you might try the smallest anal beads (or bigger if you are ready for them). Having something small in your butt that goes in and stays in is way easier than a penis going in and out. It will change the sensation in a good way for both of you. In missionary, they will rub the underside of his cock, through your vaginal walls. You can even get small vibrating beads if you like. Total game changer.
This is abuse
She'll always be 2nd to your first wife? Really?
C'mon dude. you have some serious work to do on yourself. You are not being fair to Claire, your children, or yourself.
Shit, I'll take it a step further: I could completely understand if someone in OPs situation walked into that situation, and felt sadness. Seeing a picture of a happy family activity, not including the person you'd spent half your life picturing would be there but instead it has someone else in their place. It would make sense to shed a tear or two in bittersweet recollection.
But almost as soon as those feelings are felt, it should be followed by a swell of happiness and pride. That they still have someone who loves them enough to fill that role, that loves their daughter enough to fill that role, that is kind and compassionate enough to think of such a kind, domestic task, that their daughter trusts someone enough to enjoy the activity. He should be beaming at such a scene.
It's okay to be sad, it's okay to feel grief, and miss the things you can no longer have. But OPs problem is that he's missing out on all the goodness in his situation.
The man definitely needs therapy, because he's still stuck in the past, but the world doesn't occur in the past, it only happens here, every single day, in the present.
I hope you find a therapist you mesh with and can help you OP.
So that’s your brain going into emotional shock and protecting you from self destructing. Same thing happen when my dad (my favorite human being on the planet) had a stroke and was hospitalized. When I saw the text from my step mom—I felt nothing. I remember putting my phone back into my pocket and focusing on work and the clients I was dealing with.
My brain literally couldn’t process how devastated I was and instead of feeling that—it just shut down.
I’m so sorry you’re in this state. And I suggest meditating and focus on finding your emotions.
Because they’re going to come back.
And yet you’re still with him! Why?
Do not have sex with someone who doesn't respect you and your body!
Find out what he thinks is a reasonable amount to spend on the wedding. Then do some research into what you think would satisfy you while staying close to the budget.
My wife and I rented a hall, hired a catering company for just the immediate family and bridal party (75) as well as the cake and desserts. After the dinner it became kind of an open invitation which ended up being about 800 people. We bought the alcohol (beer, wine and champagne) and hired a bartender service for serving and their liquor license. The cost was probably about a tenth of what a wedding that size would normally cost. I’ve seen even less expensive wedding where the food is pot luck but not everyone will be comfortable with that. There are ways of having an inexpensive but nice wedding but it takes more work than most want to do.
Yeah get away from your crazy family before you get into your next relationship.
Your bf is right, they are crazy, and he’s right to get as far away as possible from them and you.
I like this thought of having 99%, because let’s be real 100% just never happens! There will always be at least 1 thing about your partner that isn’t your absolute favourite, but in this way the positives so far exceed the negatives that it’s worth it! And chances anyone else you find will just have their strengths and weaknesses shuffled cause literally no one’s perfect.
Don’t throw away something great in pursuit of the impossible.
You keep repeating yourself as though if you say it enough times it will make sense.
I'm in a near 4 year relationship now where I've always made more money and our finances are still our own beyond what we each contribute for mutual living costs.
Call the cops and move on. Don’t get back together with her. Next step will be trapping you with a baby so you guys stay tied FOREVER and that won’t be fun. Keep on moving on!
You might be getting all excited over nothing, this other girl might not be interested in having a relationship with you.
Think of it like this, your current girl has been with you for a while and stuck with you. You don't have history with this new girl and she might just see you as a bit of short term fun. You could easily break up and get together with this new girl to find yourself single again in 6 months.
Unless you're unhappy in your current relationship, I suggest you park this.
Okay but seriously, free speech should be and IS protected by the LAW. You saying that Nazi speech is totally fine and dandy by YOU is incredibly disturbing. You’re a member of the community, not a cop or an officer of the law.
And quoting fucking neo Nazis in the process is even more so disturbing. Do you not see that? The Nazis don’t need you sticking up for them in this thread.
Girl if he's showing these pictures to his friends you can 100% believe he's been doing the same with yours as well. Or definitely will do when you break up. He's a walking red flag. Make sure you delete everything you sent him from wherever he has them along with any backups. Including from chats because he can always resave them. Make sure he hasn't secretly recorded you. Then walk away.
Thank you for your advice.