You’re probably not the first person to notice this about them but you’re probably the first person to feel like you need to intervene. They’re an adult they don’t need your pity. They’re using it to manipulate you and it’s working. Please don’t try to fix them or pity them. They are not an incapable child or someone who needs help. Best of luck!
When he sees his friends, do they bring their girlfriends?
If not, drop it. Learn to validate yourself.
I don’t even think that sounds like that much unless you’re very short! It sounds like you’ve avoided someone pretty shallow.
You’re probably not the first person to notice this about them but you’re probably the first person to feel like you need to intervene. They’re an adult they don’t need your pity. They’re using it to manipulate you and it’s working. Please don’t try to fix them or pity them. They are not an incapable child or someone who needs help. Best of luck!