Therapy is your best bet to sort out how you really feel. If you do decide to go that route then tell babymama that’s what you are doing.
The one thing you could do for the kid is offer to be a point of contact for family medical history questions that may come up. It’s one of the incredibly important things that many people overlook.
I have an appointment, but it's three months from now. I know we will never be a thing, when I'm looking at it from distance, I can see that age gap apart, we would never be a good couple.
Well, she says that because she is with us when we are goofing around. I am usually very private about my relationship
First, I’m sorry for your loss.
Therapy is your best bet to sort out how you really feel. If you do decide to go that route then tell babymama that’s what you are doing.
The one thing you could do for the kid is offer to be a point of contact for family medical history questions that may come up. It’s one of the incredibly important things that many people overlook.
I have an appointment, but it's three months from now. I know we will never be a thing, when I'm looking at it from distance, I can see that age gap apart, we would never be a good couple.
“why doesn't he do it to make me happy?”
Christ, so selfish. You're yalking about marriage as if it's as simple as buying a lollipop from the store.