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Dayana&Frank, 22 y.o.
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There’s a reason he is a 37 year old man dating a 20 year old…
Before people take offence, I’m not judging age gaps, most of the women I’m interested have all been significantly older – but I’m in my mid 30s. I think the reason this guy wants a young girlfriend is for control…
Hi OP. You are a lot younger than him, and I can tell you that when you get to a certain age, the experiences you have in life, the different dynamics in your relationships that you will inevitable experience (platonic or romantic) etc – you will grow in more wisdom and you are less likely to put up with a lot of things you likely do now. I don’t mean that to be condescending at all. You’re 20 and you’ve got so much to experience and those experiences will shape you. People like your partner want younger partners because they think they can mould you into the partner they want. Think you are easier to control because he finds you easier to manipulate, than a woman who has probably been through close to what you are dealing with now. I’ve been there too.
His behaviour is pointing towards a massive a red flag. His withdrawal is likely a tactic to make you worry about the state of your relationship enough that you will agree to having a baby. Please do not do it.
Also, please look up the term “love bombing”
Hi OP! I know you’ve gotten some good answers already (& some…less so) but wanted to chime in because I didn’t see the one I was thinking of.
One of the simplest ways to get used to a change like this is to practice! You could try talking about your partner to other people who know them, talking about them to yourself out loud while you’re alone, writing about them in a diary, etc. & it may help you internalize the wording changes more fluidly.
I can definitely understand it being difficult to flip that switch, so to speak, especially when it sounds like you’ve both been hand-waving stereotypical gender roles in your relationship. I’d also second the comment that said to try sitting down with them to ask what all they might envision changing in your relationship, if you haven’t already, & also that it eventually should start to “click” more naturally. I literally came across some old gaming notes with a good friend’s deadname on it a while ago & couldn’t for the life of me recall to whom it could possibly be referring, lol. You’ll get there 🙂