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Flash Ass in Panties [Multi Goal]
Date: October 23, 2022
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OP, let’s look at his actions. He CHOSE to meet you at 12pm for lunch, then he updates you that he’ll be at his mom’s for a QUICK STOP; he says nothing until much later when he texts and says he won’t arrive until 2pm. This in turn screws up YOUR plans. Also he turns off his phone to “quickly” visit his mom?
His actions show me that he thinks you’ll wait around HOURS for him and what HE decides to do. This is rude and inconsiderate of your time. (It may seem like you have all the time in the world when you’re 22, but I’m telling you as a 30-something, once you get older you have more commitments and less time to deal with bullshit like waiting around for someone for hours.)
But wait! His actions show us that he’s done this before; he showed up 3.5 hours late because he needed to stop at the post office. Uh huh. Also he turns off his phone for a “quick” visit to the post office?
Yeah, no. This dude is giving you the runaround. He keeps you on the hook, and you’ve proven to him twice now that’ll you’ll accept this bullshit behaviour. He’s 31. I’ll bet you 5 whole American dollars (which is a lot considering I’d have to convert it from my currency if I’m wrong!) he’s not late for work. Because he knows he can’t be; he’s be fired. An employer wouldn’t accept that behaviour. His girlfriend shouldn’t accept it either.
People are telling you on here that it’s a dumpable offence because it is. We’ve been though it, and we dump the dudes duds that don’t respect us. It’s not your job to talk to him about his behaviour like your his mommy or his kindergarten teacher, it’s HIS job to be a functioning adult who respects other people’s time.
If you decide to have a conversation with him instead of just telling him, “it’s not gonna work,” fine, this is what you say: “you’ve been late to dates twice now, making me wait for hours for you and unable to contact you. This is unacceptable. When you are late, be it 5 minutes or 5 hours, I will leave, and we will be done.” (This isn’t a debate or negotiation, so don’t let him trick you into arguing with him or being flexible.)
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