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Date: October 23, 2022
Tommy, 23 y.o.
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You to have an emotional development of a teenage, how come you two even considered to make a baby ?
She doesn’t hate you. She just hates, mindlessly.
Therapists are… a thing. I am considered fully disabled with OCD, so I have seen a lot of therapists in my life (definitely over 20 different ones). And not every therapist is a good fit for everyone.
There are therapists with whom you simply don't click. For example, some people need a therapist who basically gives them a kick in the butt to change something. These people wouldn't do well with a very kind and careful therapist who only gently encourages – but that might be something other people need really badly.
And then there are the “dangerous” therapists. Those a therapists you get along with perfectly well, you like them, they're cool, you thus decide to do therapy with them… but then it doesn't help, simply because there are so many different types of therapy and not everything is for everyone. I currently, sadly, have one of those, as during Covid, there was a serious shortage of therapists in my country and I literally had to take what I could get. She's a wonderfully nice woman, but I am literally just going there to have a nice chat – it's still great to have someone to talk about your issues and worries about, but that's it: A talk. There is no change, nothing that feels like “therapy”, I don't feel like I'm being shown any sort of “path” I could follow to work through things. But since I liked – and like – her, I signed up for the therapy with her when I didn't know yet what it could do for me, my insurance approved it and well, now I'm stuck with her. It doesn't harm me, I still like going, but that's the issue – therapy sometimes has to be rough. It needs to make you cry as you work through traumas. If your girlfriend just went to therapy and was like “Well… it's not helping”, then that was likely because she didn't have a therapist with whom she clicked enough and who offered the right sort of therapy to her.
There are so many different types of trauma therapy. EMDR is super-popular and helps so many people, but it definitely isn't for me, for example. Your girlfriend definitely shouldn't let one failed attempt discourage her and instead realize that when it comes to therapists, “shopping around” is almost always needed.
This will cause more damage to you than you probably understand. Protect yourself from any more of this and don’t get back together with him. Look out for yourself and block him.
The right guy will never talk to you this way. Remember that! Take care ❤️
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