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♥, Ride above the torso♥ ⭐OPEN PVT⭐/ ⚡CONTROL ME⚡ [Multi Goal]
Date: October 23, 2022
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Yikes. Sounds like the potential for a financially dependent relationship, although it sounds like you'd still be making bank. Not that it can't work, but be cautious please! I've read too many posts in here (from women in particular) saying how their financial safety was jeopardized after agreeing to changing their employment situation to fit a relationship. Best of luck!
In many places, if it’s considered the marital home, she is still entitled to half once you two marry even if it’s only in your name.
Many people make the mistake that having it in just your name before marriage will protect you, but as soon as you make it the marital home, it’s marital assets. Prenups can also be thrown out by judges of the spouse as provided significant upkeep and maintenance to the property.
Put in your name only if you have doubts about marrying her or she has doubt about marrying you. That way she can’t walk away with half if you don’t go through with the marriage.
You can double check the law in your area and reassure her the house is half hers when you two marry.
Omg, how low is your self esteem and how poor is your judgement?
Hmm, not sure your situation but as someone planning to get married soon and saving for a mortgage with my partner, even if he could afford an expensive ring it's better to go towards building our life right now, so we are going for a “temporary” $400 sapphire eventually going to a nicer lab-grown diamond one. It's not unheard of to have temporary engagement rings, in my field we even have people wearing plastic wedding rings because they work with equipment that may react with the metals. If it seems like something you might be able to afford in the future and you're in a pretty transitory stage in your life right now, it can make sense to have a temporary ring.
Women have been murdered by their partners over a lot less. It’s not worth the risk, not to mention it’s her body and no one else’s business
No, it’s not a silly thing to break up with someone over. It’s a difference in morality. He thinks it’s fine to spew hateful rhetoric like that about people and you don’t. Personally, I agree with you – I’d never be with anyone who felt that way.
Focus on your purpose, hit the gym, and get on a healthy diet.
Work on your self as much as you can and you’ll be over her in no time.
His behavior is disgusting. Leave him.
Here in CT a woman was killed by her ex with an axe on December after getting a restraining order and telling the court that he was going to kill her. Mind you they broke up 3 years prior.
YES!! thank you for articulating that. i do initiate everything and it’s expected at this point… i never knew that was a respect thing tho 🙁
This is heartbreaking. There are no winners here, and no shitty people. She is perfectly entitled to change her mind. You have a biological imperative that she doesn't and it's likely to cause a wider and wider chasm as time wears on. I'm guessing you already suspect this by posting here.
This is a difficult choice but you have to make it.
There are alternatives like surrogacy if you're able to afford it, that might satisfy both of you, but otherwise you are left with a difficult decision, and must subjectively decide whether having kids of your own or staying together with this person is more important to you. I know that can be like looking into a crystal ball and don't envy the choice you have to make.
Sorry OP.
Where does it say he’s going to strip clubs? Why can’t she go to a casino? If she wants to be able to drink then she can wait until after giving birth.
Go to your graduation and celebrate you! You can attend the wedding or wedding celebration after. It's about you not him. Do both, don't play 2nd fiddle.
If she doesn't know what she wants for life and is willing to abandon the life she does have, a life that sounds better off than most people get, then she better be prepared to find out where she's gonna stay when she gets back, better save some money for a lawyer if she ever wants to see her daughter again. At least that is where my mind is going. She doesn't get to drop out of her family and responsibilities without consequences. How is she even going to pay for a trip to France? I can't imagine working part time at an antique shop is gonna afford a two week luxury.
What are you looking for relationship advice on? For something you can do, or is your “friend” asking for input?
If it's the former, there's not much that you can do. He doesn't have to discuss it with you. This is even more relevant if your friend didn't even ask you to step at all. If it's the latter, then that's actually open to interpretation and more details would be needed like if he has a history of cheating.
Good. It’s hot to keep it up but do not he best you can
See he wanted to date. He was hoping that something would spark with him but so far nothing
What the fuck trash heap is this? A fight broke out at your wedding? Your husband went home pissy because you’re too goofy? You’re all a mess.
As someone who has a complicated relationship with his family I can shed some light on that. I don't know about his family, besides what you shared. But it seems apparent to me that's very disincentivized from sharing his personal life with them.
I invite you to look at it from a different perspective, though. Why would he not want to share his happiness, his future plans and his evolving life with them? Well, the root of the answer is simple: They (his family) probably never made him feel welcome around them. His feelings were probably dismissed frequently. And he likely meets a lot of cruel treatment from at least some of his family.
And if you ever grew up in such a family, you'd know that this is a very hostile environment. Hostile enough, at times, that you can reach a point where you decide to keep your family at arm's length. Which means, you probably will either not share your life with them anymore, or do it very sparingly, only at the large milestones.
Having said all of that, you may still feel that, in spite of all of this, you'd like him to introduce you to his family. But in feeling this way, you must be cautious, because you may simply push your partner too far, in this regard. You cannot possibly know the raw feelings he has for his family, unless he's very plainly shared it with you. And there are likely countless stories of hurt and complicated feelings that surround his relationship with them. So while it may seem like a simple matter to you, it may be very complex and daunting to him.
Proceed with caution, and try to have some empathy for where he's coming from. I doubt very much if he's “hiding you”, when you yourself said he has a dysfunctional family. With whom he likely shares little to nothing, by the sound of it.
You need to move out.
It is not your house and you do not have privacy there.
I have 3 kids. If they didn't tell me until they were an adult I would understand and not hold it against them. And yes I would absolutely want them to tell me.
Sorry, is this your business partner or girlfriend?
Then don't read it. Maybe ask yourself “is there anything that this letter could say that will make my life better?” and if you come up with a no then there's no point in ever opening it.
She's 19, she's still younger. You're 2, so are you. If you don't like her doing drugs, have an actual conversation with her about quitting, instead of assuming the problem will resolve itself in time
I am going there later to pick my stuff up and I am going to contact the landlord so and put the property just in her name, she can start paying the bills herself
This will be my last try with him, then I'll let go for good.
This actually never works, but you're not actually listening to advice in the first place
There are lots of other things you could do together that does not involve PIV. My partner sometimes doesn’t last long, but that’s usually the first time after time apart. He’s a bit of a cunning linguist and we get adventurous in other ways. Maybe you could get another man to join in the bedroom? He might enjoy watching….
You should absolutely cherrish this. A lot of people think that the ultimate goal is this Disney story, falling extremely in love after the first look. It isn't. Your story is. You share your life with someone who treats you very well, same values, love to do things with you. Don't forget, we humans are not supposed to be alone. Do you really want to risk everything you have for a lifetime persue for the only one who ticks every box? He doesn't exist.
Besides that, we men often don't know how to express their feelings. I can fucking garantue you, if you leave, he will absolutely miss you, and he will be devestated. And being in love eventually transform into loving to. Again, you got the jackpot.
If I had gold I’d give it to you ?