Just curious, but since you don't mind oral interactions with the fleshlight, is only putting the head in your mouth an option? If so, there are good stroker toys that allow the head to be uncovered. You're totally NTA, regardless. Guys don't “need” oral.
He has literally told you what he wants you to do: nothing. Why can't you accept that? You say you're not going to disrespect his wishes while you are asking the internet for help with a plan to disrespect his wishes.
He's not into birthdays; just treat the day like a normal Tuesday (or whatever day).
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She felt guilty she cheated on him and wanted to relieve a small part of it so she could move on.
Just curious, but since you don't mind oral interactions with the fleshlight, is only putting the head in your mouth an option? If so, there are good stroker toys that allow the head to be uncovered. You're totally NTA, regardless. Guys don't “need” oral.
He has literally told you what he wants you to do: nothing. Why can't you accept that? You say you're not going to disrespect his wishes while you are asking the internet for help with a plan to disrespect his wishes.
He's not into birthdays; just treat the day like a normal Tuesday (or whatever day).